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harassment/threats/stalking ~*Momma of 2*~ 66 kids; Oklahoma 4940 posts
12th Jun '13

What can be done for someone harassing you via Facebook, and sending you emails threatening to harm you while you're pregnant?
I have had this girl harassing me and my family for 6 months via Facebook. Sunday she brought some girl over to my house to retrieve some items and that night I received an email from the girl who got the items threatening to beat the f**k out of me "pregnant or not". I only met this chick one time in my life and it was Sunday. Then they were seen by my neighbors throwing eggs and other crap at my car and house Monday night, and they keep driving by my house.
I have called the cops twice due to all of this and they said I would have to take it to a prosecutor. I just now got this girls address and information for me to file with a prosecutor.
What I want to know is, what do I expect besides going to court? What all can be done about this? I am 7 months pregnant and have had to leave my house for a couple days just to get away from all of it and the stress!!

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15558 posts
12th Jun '13

First off, get a restraining order, ASAP! That way you can call the Police and they'll be arrested if they come near you again.



Did you get a copy of the Police reports from the previous times you've called them? I really can't believe that someone egged your car and the police did nothing about it. That's vandalism.

~*Momma of 2*~ 66 kids; Oklahoma 4940 posts
12th Jun '13
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" First off, get a restraining order, ASAP! That way you can call the Police and they'll be arrested if ... [snip!] ... you've called them? I really can't believe that someone egged your car and the police did nothing about it. That's vandalism."


Well they only took the report for the email. I could easily get a copy of that but they wouldn't even budge or do anything about them throwing eggs at my car and house. Just said "its a civil matter". Cops here are whack!!

~*Momma of 2*~ 66 kids; Oklahoma 4940 posts
12th Jun '13
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" First off, get a restraining order, ASAP!


As far as a restraining order.... If I have a copy of the threats made, can they give me that? Seems people have to be murdered before anyone will actually step up and take a matter as this seriously. Crime rate in my town is EXTREMELY high. Everyday there's a shooting or someone being murdered. Now I am starting to see why.. Because everything to them is a civil matter until it gets to the point of someone being killed! I am so stressed out due to all of this that I haven't slept good in days!

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15558 posts
12th Jun '13
Quoting ~*Mommy of 1*~:" As far as a restraining order.... If I have a copy of the threats made, can they give me that? Seems ... [snip!] ... until it gets to the point of someone being killed! I am so stressed out due to all of this that I haven't slept good in days!"

You should have no trouble getting an order if you have a copy of them threatening you.

~*Momma of 2*~ 66 kids; Oklahoma 4940 posts
12th Jun '13
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" You should have no trouble getting an order if you have a copy of them threatening you."


Okay. That is good to hear! I do in fact have a printed copy of her email. I just now found out where she lives and her address because they wouldn't do anything without it! So I will be going in tomorrow morning and pressing charges.

Brianna Hebert 34 kids; Alberta 165 posts
12th Jun '13

get a restraining order against her and her friend. print out all her email to you. and ask your neighbors if they will give statements of what they saw to ur lawyer or cops