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Cast Your Vote:

    • no i never leave kids unattended/ its unacceptable -- Votes: 40
    • yes, but always less than 10 or 15 minutes -- Votes: 3
    • yes, but the vehicle is on and running -- Votes: 4
    • yes, i leave my children in the car -- Votes: 3
ℐαzmчn 2 kids; Somerset, Kentucky 12712 posts
13th Jun '13
Quoting Lady GooGoo
Booger & Bubba's Mommy 18 kids; Illinois 8136 posts
13th Jun '13

I have left them to run into the gas station hand the cashier my money & say "$10 on 2" & walk back out. I take the keys with me & lock them in with the windows cracked. I'm in & out within a minute. If there is a line I take them in with me. They never get left in a car besides the driveway other than that. I will run into the house & grab something, I even send them outside to get themselves in. We have a long driveway & rarely have anyone willing to drive it though.

Monsters² Mom 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Middle o' nowhere, __, Guam 5162 posts
status 13th Jun '13

Not sure if this really counts since I park right next to the cart return, but I've done it once. I was standing behind the car loading in groceries, turned around to put the cart back and DD locked all the damn doors and set off the alarm.
I had to crawl through the trunk over the back seat & middle seat and try to squeeze through the captains chairs in the front to grab the keys (I have a suburban)



The car keys were in the ignition (the car was on) but I have a spare beep beep in the pouch behind the passenger side. Apparently my daughter has monkey feet and grabbed it that way lol.

Jess |Team Pink| 1 child; Arkansas 1873 posts
13th Jun '13

just yesterday a 2 year old girl was found in a car left alone screaming, a walmart employee saw her and was trying to find help when the child stopped screaming, a passerby broke open the back window and they were able to get the girl out and brought inside and cooled down and safe until cops arrived. Thats when they found out the man who had brought her, actually left her outside while him and a 4yr old girl went inside to shop. It was in the 90's with 100+ heat indexes.. crazy scary



I never leave my daughter alone in the car unless I'm at home and have to do something like move the trash to the curb.. even then, the car is still running for the air... just crazy :-/

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22566 posts
status 13th Jun '13

I have left her in there sleeping when I pull up at home and then I sit on the porch til she wakes up.



I don't ever go into the gas station so thats a no. She is only 4 so I wouldn't leave her in there in a public place alone.



Who would leave their kid in the car at work anyway?

Smash Fins ; 2 kids; Denver, Colorado 1300 posts
13th Jun '13

my son is 5 and sometimes he will ask to e left in the car. I will leave the car running, AC blasting, doors locked and I will run in and do what I need to do.



I don't see a problem...



When he was younger I NEVER left him in the car alone.

* Clairebear * 1 child; Ireland 2941 posts
13th Jun '13

No I don't do it, I take my daughter out and carry her if I'm going in somewhere. I usually use the petrol stations that have the card pay option at the pumps. I would only leave her if there was another adult in the car as well. I brought her to the doc for her vaccinations one day and there was a car parked next to mine with a toddler and a dog in it. There was a woman standing nearby talking on a phone and smoking a cigarette so i assumed she was the mother. We were inside half an hour and when we came out again I saw a different woman get in the car and drive away. I felt so bad for not saying anything while I was in the doctors, god knows how long that child was left there! Also in work one day the managers were trying to track down a car owner coz another customer reported a young baby was inside all alone. They finally found her and she was in the food hall doing her shopping. She just shrugged it off and said she left the child coz she knew she wouldn't be long. She also said the baby was just 2 months old! Our climate wouldn't be too hot, but still.....

Im watching you 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Adelaide, Australia 4985 posts
13th Jun '13
Quoting b**b Juice Factory. [EBFB:" Completely wrong, and in the Australian climate extremely dangerous! And people seriously leaving their ... [snip!] ... people have stolen cars with babies in them because the parent stupidly leaves the baby and the keys. All in all unacceptable."


hasn't this happened twice in the last two weeks



this scares the shit out of me , I just imagine how scared my daughter would be if someone tried to take the car with her in it



I was out the front of her dads house one day and we were about to leave , when she asked her dad if she could take one of her toys from his house to my house so he ran inside while me and her waited in the car , well some wack job walked up to the car and reached for the door handle , lucky I have central locking and I quickly pushed the button , it freaked me out and scared my daughter , I have no idea who the guy was and im just so glad that I have central locking so now everytime I get in the car I lock the doors straight away

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
13th Jun '13

I leave my 1-year-old in the car when I'm running groceries in the house if she's asleep. I park the car in the garage, nothing is going to happen to her while I go in and set a few bags on the counter. At a certain age, I think it is absolutely fine to leave a child in the car while you run in to Walmart for one thing or run in to pay for gas. Give them the keys, lock the door, it's all good. What age depends on the child. My 10 year old brother is more than capable of siting in the car while I run in to pay for gas and a candy bar.



However, a child (or pet) should never be left in the car alone for extended periods of time, or even quickly if it's very hot out an the air isn't running.

ShockersShufflers 19 kids; Iowa 1501 posts
13th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting .Colleen.:</b>" My kids are only 4 and 6 so I don't leave them in the car. and I think it's a tragic yet genuine ... [snip!] ... out drunk, hanging out with friends, etc then yes, I do think some type of "punishment" would be appropriate as neglect. "</blockquote>




i know you said it would piss you off, but i just wanted to clarify i haven't left my children in the car while I'm at work. A teacher did just this last month.

here is the link: http://crimeblog.dallasnews.com/2013/05/child-dies-after-being-left-in-car-after-being-left-in-car-at-a-disd-school.html/



also on a different website, there have been 11 deaths in the US this year so far 2013.



its so sad.

j0des(+2) 18 kids; Virginia 5095 posts
13th Jun '13

Only to unlock the door to our house if theyre sleeping usually..ocassionally if I have alot of groceries, ect. I only do it in my driveway and I can see them from the door. My oldest stands next to me while I put his brother in. When he was an infant, I put the baby down(in his carrier) next to me while I strapped in my toddler.

Mrs. Brightside 2 kids; Lichtensteig, Switzerland 11733 posts
13th Jun '13

In public, no way. The only time I leave my daughter in the car in public is if I am getting gas and my aunt is working (at the gas station) she will always come outside to say hi to my daughter and I will run in and pay while she is out there.



But I have left her in the car in my own driveway if I forgot something in the house or something but no longer than 30 seconds literally.

Nameless Ghoul 2 kids; Sweden 6452 posts
13th Jun '13

The only times I've ever left my kids in the car is when I'm pumping gas (I pay at the pump) with a window rolled down, and when I've gone places with them by myself and I have to get them in/out of the car one at a time when we leave/get home, which never takes me more than a minute.

mommy2two0212 TTC since Dec 2011; 50 kids; Morton, Illinois 83 posts
13th Jun '13

It really depends on their age. My son is almost 11 (in 4 days) and I have a 7 month old daughter. I do leave my son in the car with my daughter if I am just running inside somewhere for a couple minutes and I can see the car. I always leave it running and I lock the doors. My son is mature for his age and I feel completely safe leaving him with his sister for the amount of time that I am gone. I however would NEVER leave my infant in the car no matter how long by herself and I never left my son in the car by himself until he was around 10. He was more then old enough to know never let anyone in and to stay seated in his seat.

❀Sarah❀ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Cocking, EU, Europe 126030 posts
status 13th Jun '13

I do it on 2 occasions, I'm pumping gas, getting the mail or dropping a letter in the mailbox. I dont really see an issue with that. I wont leave them in the truck while running errands though.