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THE Draco Malfoy 2 kids; Tennessee 20769 posts
20th Jun '13
Quoting Sherri + 3:" It could be how I view sex. I have always associated sex and love. I was never able to have sex with a guy without developing feelings. I never thought of it that way, but what you said makes sense. "

i had a very misconstrued opinion of sex before coming on babygaga. Like i mentioned in a previous post, not everything is black and white. not arguing here since you apologized, but you just have to open your mind a little. the only guy i've ever had sex with is DH, i used to think (before i got married) that if i had sex with anyone else, i would go to hell or i'd be labeled a slut. then i learned that the average amount of sexual partners is much higher than that. Before, i might've thought like you, that what she did/is doing was gross, but i've learned we all have needs, and there's nothing wrong with scratching that itch.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
20th Jun '13
Quoting Sherri + 3:" I slept with 9 guys before meeting my DH. I started having sex at 16 and met my DH when I was 23. Not ... [snip!] ... seeing women degrade themselves that way. You don't think the dude you slept with is thinking you are a slut right now, OP? "


Pot....meet kettle. It is okay for you to sleep with NINE guys but she can't sleep with two? And seven years....that means you were having, on average, a new guy a year. Sometimes twice. And then husband makes ten. Some people may find sleeping with 10 guys at age 23 whorish.

Sherri + 3 LLC 3 kids; Mesa, Arizona 3758 posts
20th Jun '13
Quoting Back to Noob Status:" Pot....meet kettle. It is okay for you to sleep with NINE guys but she can't sleep with two? And seven ... [snip!] ... a new guy a year. Sometimes twice. And then husband makes ten. Some people may find sleeping with 10 guys at age 23 whorish. "


Why are you beating a dead horse? I already apologized to the OP for how my comments came across. I am far, far from a whore. I had my wild years just like any other woman. I guarantee most women on this site alone have had more then 1 or 2 sexual partners. I am not proud of my number but it is what it is. If I could go back and save myself for my DH I certainly would.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
20th Jun '13

Idc who thinks im a slut the only sluts that really exist are the women who knowingly go after men with families.

~ Island ~ Phoenix ~ 2 kids; Brisbane, Australia 192 posts
20th Jun '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" Idc who thinks im a slut the only sluts that really exist are the women who knowingly go after men with families."


I've had issues with my SO over chicks like this, he thought she had no ulterior motive but yeah, she did. It's nice when a simple thing like sex with no strings can make you feel good, especially when you realise sex can be awesome :D

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
20th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~ Island ~ Phoenix ~:</b>" I've had issues with my SO over chicks like this, he thought she had no ulterior motive but yeah, she ... [snip!] ... nice when a simple thing like sex with no strings can make you feel good, especially when you realise sex can be awesome :D"</blockquote>




Im having issues finishing though. Im afraid if i do ill get attached