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Do you have real friends?? Nomo 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
14th Jun '13

I really have no "real" friends. I had a couple in Ohio butnifcourse moving changes things. I hardly know what goes on in their lives anymore. Only talk here and there through FB. I have attempted a few play groups here but everyone is either younger than me or older me with like 1kid and no one gets it.




My two friends in Ohio are my age and are both pregnant with their 4th babies too!! We just got each other. Here I feel like I have to be so fake or no one wants to be my friend. I had a friend I hung out with who randomly told me it was disgusting I was pregnant and not married and all this and cut me out if her life. My only other friend is someone I can count on but I feel like most of the time it's cuz I watch her kid for her for free. Idk



I miss having a person to talk to and know dispite what's going on, they still love me. I moved here to be with family.... Of corse Everythjng they said they would do if I moved here never happened. I wanna go back to Ohio so bad but SO needs to finish school so a couple years...... My family is butter about it , but no one calls me unless they need something. It's annoying

Pregnancy Addiction Due August 10; TTC since Mar 2013; 7 kids; Wyoming 12335 posts
14th Jun '13

I have one real friend, and she lives 4 hours away, so we dont see each other all that often.

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
14th Jun '13
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" I really have no "real" friends. I had a couple in Ohio butnifcourse moving changes things. I hardly ... [snip!] ... school so a couple years...... My family is butter about it , but no one calls me unless they need something. It's annoying"


I socialize more online than in real life. I can't stand most people in my age group (the college kids), and between two jobs and school, I don't have much time to build friendships. But I do have a couple of texting buddies.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
14th Jun '13

Not really. DH and I have 2 couples that we're friends with. I'm closer to the wives, he's closer to the husbands, but we go out with them sometimes. (not at the same time, they don't know each other). But I wouldn't expect much from them if I was in need of something.
My best friend is my cousin, I'd trust her with my life. But that's pretty much it.

user banned 33 kids; British Columbia 2986 posts
14th Jun '13

real ones, nope. I feel like I'm begging people to talk to me let alone hang out.

GirlsHaveCOOTIES 3 kids; Minsk, Belarus 15331 posts
14th Jun '13

I have one real friend, I see her all the time. Her boy is the same age as my oldest. She's attending my home birth this time around :-)

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
14th Jun '13

Yup, quite a few. Our schedules just don't line up well enough to see each other as frequently as we'd like.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
14th Jun '13

Yeah, I have friends. It's sort of hit and miss for hang-out time because everyone's schedules are always so crazy.



I also try to go on a girl's long weekend every few months with my BFF who lives across the country.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
14th Jun '13
Quoting Sly Saffy:" Yup. "


LIES.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
14th Jun '13
Quoting The Original Mayhem.:" LIES. "


Nuh-uh.



Drea wants to hang out with me. We're gonna get drunk in 80s prom dresses and crimped hair with blue eyeshadow one day. ONE OF THESE DAYS.

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
14th Jun '13

I moved across the country as soon as I hit 18. I still don't have any "real friends" either. DH is my BEST friend, and sometimes I hang out with the wives of his work friends... and I have 1 "friend" from work that I work out with, but I don't have my "real, true, sister, got your back no matter what friends."

Nikkie Beee Due January 29; 2 kids; Victorville, California 3968 posts
14th Jun '13

My husband is literally my ONLY friend. Most of the people I know are single with kids, so they party a lot or have no kids and party a lot. All these people are in their mid to late 20s and still act like they're 18-21. We have nothing in common. So, we stopped talking because I'm too "domestic". It gets lonely, but, I'll live.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
14th Jun '13
Quoting Sly Saffy:" Nuh-uh. Drea wants to hang out with me. We're gonna get drunk in 80s prom dresses and crimped hair with blue eyeshadow one day. ONE OF THESE DAYS."


...I just....IDK :lol: Will you wear purple lipstick and take pics?

Carter&Violet♥ She Gone! 2 kids; Virginia 14177 posts
14th Jun '13

I have one good friend & my older sister. Other than that my friends I regularly talk to are on here. I hope you meet some nice people, that must be hard.

Jays*Mama 2 kids; Michigan 5649 posts
14th Jun '13

I have one real friend and she just moved back to her hometown 2 hours away :( I would love to have just one really good friend.