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*Lindsey* 3 kids; Alberta 8798 posts
14th Jun '13
Quoting ☮ Phuket:" I really have no "real" friends. I had a couple in Ohio butnifcourse moving changes things. I hardly ... [snip!] ... school so a couple years...... My family is butter about it , but no one calls me unless they need something. It's annoying"


I have one real friend and she just happens to be my sil as well lol.
I have a few friends here where i live, but i feel like the only time they call or text is if they need something like for me to watch their kids or a ride somewhere. So i kinda just dont talk to them cause it pisses me off. I have friends here that i go out with once in a while if something is going on in town (usually a ladies gala or fundraiser thing) and we go as a group and all have fun. But they arent the kid of friend i would call to talk to, or tell my problems too haha.
Im just glad i have one really good one that i can count on for anything. Thats all i need!

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60916 posts
14th Jun '13

I do. I didn't when we lived in NC, and I missed them so much. My best friend and I get together when we can. We're both busy, but we love hanging out when the opportunity comes up.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
14th Jun '13
Quoting Sly Saffy:" Nuh-uh. Drea wants to hang out with me. We're gonna get drunk in 80s prom dresses and crimped hair with blue eyeshadow one day. ONE OF THESE DAYS."

One of these days! we're gonna take a party bus to Tijuana and watch shit get reaaalll.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
14th Jun '13
Quoting The Original Mayhem.:" ...I just....IDK :lol: Will you wear purple lipstick and take pics? "


You should have been on my FB when that idea came to light. That's also where I got the nickname Saffy.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
14th Jun '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" One of these days! we're gonna take a party bus to Tijuana and watch shit get reaaalll. "


And have arm sex with homeless men.

Taryn - Anya's mommy 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Toronto, Ontario 49446 posts
14th Jun '13

I have one real friend, well actually 2, but its a couple. Its my best friend from high school, she is the only one outside my family that I trust, and she lives 8 hours away :cry: We have started doing family vacations though, my parents even consider her and her husband family, and considers their kids their grandkids

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
14th Jun '13
Quoting Sly Saffy:" And have arm sex with homeless men."


I forgot about the homeless arm sex, but that's for sure top priority.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
14th Jun '13
Quoting Sly Saffy:" You should have been on my FB when that idea came to light. That's also where I got the nickname Saffy."


Where does saffy even come from? I thought it was the sociopathic thing :lol:
Or is it, and the sociopathic alpha female thing is also tied into blue eyeshadow and booze?

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
14th Jun '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" I forgot about the homeless arm sex, but that's for sure top priority. "


Best. Weekend. Ever.

Later Gator. 1 child; Chicago, IL, United States 9043 posts
14th Jun '13

Sure don't. I had a best friend since high school but about 2 years ago she moved towns and we rarely speak to each other anymore.. Besides that just the people I work with and SO. It's kinda depressed me lately.



edit: I have other friends, just no one I'm close to.

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
14th Jun '13
Quoting The Original Mayhem.:" Where does saffy even come from? I thought it was the sociopathic thing :lol: Or is it, and the sociopathic alpha female thing is also tied into blue eyeshadow and booze? "


HOKAY
Read this:
http://jurassicpark.wikia.com/wiki/The_Big_One The very first few lines.



Then you will understand.

user banned 2 kids; Georgia 24891 posts
14th Jun '13

I've had some of the same friends since kindergarten. I don't have a lot in the area we are in now, but we have a lot of "couple" friends.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
14th Jun '13

I have no friends "real" or otherwise, lol. Seriously. The last time I spent any time with a person who was not related to me was years and years ago. I'd say it's been at least 6 years since I had a real "friend."



When I worked I spoke to people at work, but I did not ever spend time with them when not working.



I'm not good at making friends.

Sugarhiccup LLC ; 5 kids; Lahaina, Hawaii 2825 posts
14th Jun '13

Yes I know exactly what you feel like! We moved here for dh's job but I didn't really have any friends back home anyways because I traveled for work and well honestly I refuse to be fake for people lol. I also have five kids and most people look and are like :shock:! Somewhere along the lines being in your 30's became old. I stopped trying to be friends with alot of people because when they found out what I do (did) (I'm currently a sahm) they just found ways to use me. I prefer not going to social functions at my dh's job because I always feel very out of place and have nothing in common with anyone there and I feel dumb :roll:.

Jae- DJ Jordyn & Cams Mom 3 kids; San Diego, California 5928 posts
14th Jun '13

It seems like I can only stay friends with people for a couple years before things chage. Its like one day something happens and its the straw that broke the camels back. you start to realize they were always like that- how did you not see it before! ?! And your right people with 1 kid just don't get it! Sucks :(



I do have a few friends that have become like family but they are usually all too busy to ever hang out. I would love a few more friends with kids that lived closer.