I called child support enforcement today cause i havent heard anything since march about my case. well i find out today that i should be recieveing a letter in a month saying how much i should be getting and as long as my ex is fine with it than it will become the set child support amount but if he doesnt than we have to go to court. anyone elses ex fight it? what happened?. i am pretty sure he wont fight it i just want to know what to expect if he does.
My ex fights every time we've gone. First I was getting $50 a month and wanted an increase, he tried to fight me and I settled on $100. That was a few years ago. Then a few months ago we went for another increase and he tried arguing again. It got increased to $200. I could technically take him back again already because he went from being laid off to working. But now he's trying to play games and is working pretty much under the table. He gets a 1099 at the end of the year but I have to find out where he works so domestic relations will make his employer take out the support.
Basically, if he wants to fight you then you usually see a mediation person. Talk about what you each make and how much time the child(ren) is with each of you. Here if you can't agree, then you see a judge who looks over the info and usually rules for him to pay the maximum amount they can take. If you have daycare costs, insurance, etc that can be factored into the support.