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user banned California 8675 posts
19th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ShockersShufflers:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PRETTY IN RED:</b>" So how did it went op? Did he took you to meet his mom?"</blockquote> yes it went pretty good."</blockquote>




More details please.

ShockersShufflers 19 kids; Iowa 1501 posts
19th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting PRETTY IN RED:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ShockersShufflers:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PRETTY ... [snip!] ... Did he took you to meet his mom?"</blockquote> yes it went pretty good."</blockquote> More details please."</blockquote>




she knows everything. lol. she was really good to the kids. we talked allot and had supper. she seems really nice. it went so good. I'm glad it all worked out the way it did

user banned California 8675 posts
19th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ShockersShufflers:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PRETTY IN RED:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ShockersShufflers:</b>" ... [snip!] ... to the kids. we talked allot and had supper. she seems really nice. it went so good. I'm glad it all worked out the way it did"</blockquote>




Is hard to believe hun sorry but why did he made it so hard to even tell him mom in the first place? I really want to believe this but only you know what ir really going on. Hope everything works out for you and hope you have more dignity and pride and if he pulls another shit like this know how to better handle it.

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15526 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting PRETTY IN RED:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ShockersShufflers:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting PRETTY ... [snip!] ... works out for you and hope you have more dignity and pride and if he pulls another shit like this know how to better handle it."


You think shes lying about meeting his mom?

user banned California 8675 posts
19th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):</b>" You think shes lying about meeting his mom? "</blockquote>




I just cant believe it but if everything went well I am happy for her. But I still cant help it but to feel sad over the whole thing.

мɑkɑnɑni 1 angel baby; ~, FL, United States 65275 posts
21st Jun '13

I think OP's lying.

ShockersShufflers 19 kids; Iowa 1501 posts
21st Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mαkαnαni:</b>" I think OP's lying. "</blockquote>




you are a f**king idiot.
why would i lie about something like that??



are you that unhappy with your life, that you don't want to believe anything good can happen in mine?



what did you think? that when she meet me she'd reject me? she absolutely adored DS2 & the new baby.



His siblings however, abs his grandma, and a few of his cousins are pissed at him.



but all we can do is take it one day at a time.



seriously... get over yourself.

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15526 posts
21st Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mαkαnαni:</b>" I think OP's lying. "</blockquote>




Why do you think she is lying? Do you think she would really reveal something this crappy about her life and then try to lie to make it better? If that was the case don't you think she would have done it months ago when people started giving her crap about it? I don't think she's lying there is no reason to lie about it now.

ShockersShufflers 19 kids; Iowa 1501 posts
21st Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting mαkαnαni:</b>" I think OP's lying. "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... it months ago when people started giving her crap about it? I don't think she's lying there is no reason to lie about it now."</blockquote>




thank you. if anyone reads my post...all of this started months ago. maybe September/October of last year.



this is the one place i can come to let it all out. and kind of vent.



i don't have the time or the energy to fabricate a story that most women treat me like shit over.




you think i want everyone trekking me how dumbi am all the time??




i post for those few people who actually offer legit sound advice.

мɑkɑnɑni 1 angel baby; ~, FL, United States 65275 posts
21st Jun '13
Quoting ShockersShufflers:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mαkαnαni:</b>" I think OP's lying. "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... and a few of his cousins are pissed at him. but all we can do is take it one day at a time. seriously... get over yourself."


I'm happy with my life, thanks. I don't need to get over myself. You're the one with issues, not me.



How did you meet her all of a sudden when you didn't want to push the issue and let him do it in his own time?



After what I read, it doesn't seem believable. Your situation is/was dysfunctional. Oh, well. Thankfully it isn't my problem.

I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
21st Jun '13
Quoting mαkαnαni:" I'm happy with my life, thanks. I don't need to get over myself. You're the one with issues, not me. ... [snip!] ... After what I read, it doesn't seem believable. Your situation is/was dysfunctional. Oh, well. Thankfully it isn't my problem."


have to agree with you

ShockersShufflers 19 kids; Iowa 1501 posts
21st Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mαkαnαni:</b>" I'm happy with my life, thanks. I don't need to get over myself. You're the one with issues, not me. ... [snip!] ... After what I read, it doesn't seem believable. Your situation is/was dysfunctional. Oh, well. Thankfully it isn't my problem."</blockquote>




it wasn't sudden...it was gradual. have you read my other posts?



I'm sorry for snapping at you.
my relationship is fucked up. I'll be three first to admit it.



maybe, hopefully, it will keep getting better.
i think his mom liked me but who knows...
time will tell.



anyways..after being together for almost a year and a half...
he told his mom about me like two weeks before fathers day...then on fathers day he told he about our child together. he said she took it better than expected and invited us over for dinner the following Wednesday. and so far that's all that has happened.



there's no reason to lie.



and btw..I'm glad you aren't in my shoes either.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
21st Jun '13
Quoting ShockersShufflers:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mαkαnαni:</b>" I'm happy with my life, thanks. ... [snip!] ... and so far that's all that has happened. there's no reason to lie. and btw..I'm glad you aren't in my shoes either."


I have to go with them. If you actually went and actually had a good time you would have made another thread about it saying that you were happy. It kinda sounds like you are covering.

user banned California 8675 posts
21st Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" I have to go with them. If you actually went and actually had a good time you would have made another thread about it saying that you were happy. It kinda sounds like you are covering. "</blockquote>
Like I said earlier is just hard to believe. Just imagine if she would of said otherwise that he didnt took her and lied once again. She knows what we all going to say. Idk I am just weary about the whole thing like why now and not before? But again if it did in fact happend I am happy for her I really am. But is still a dysfuctional relationship either way. Sorry op.

user banned California 8675 posts
21st Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mαkαnαni:</b>" I'm happy with my life, thanks. I don't need to get over myself. You're the one with issues, not me. ... [snip!] ... After what I read, it doesn't seem believable. Your situation is/was dysfunctional. Oh, well. Thankfully it isn't my problem."</blockquote>




This!



I feel the same way.