Aly ♥ Marie 4 kids; 900 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting mj's mommy ♥:" I don't call myself a teen mom, but it's nice to talk to moms my age."


How old are you?

Senorita Lopez Due October 10; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nassau, BA, Bahamas 5091 posts
status 16th Jun '13

Nobody really bashes as far as I know...most women have carried good points. Girls come on here advertising that they got knocked up before even finishing school and are all happy and excited...knowing they're just gonna sit on welfare because some are too young to even get a job. I was pregnant at 17 and sure as hell don't come on here calling myself a "proud teen mommy".

THE Draco Malfoy 1 child; Tennessee 19885 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting Krystle ♥:" Well if you act like a "teen mom" your obviously gonna get treated like it... Why can't it just be mothers and not catagorize it by what age someone is."

:!:

Aly ♥ Marie 4 kids; 900 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting Loka Lokita:" Nobody really bashes as far as I know...most women have carried good points. Girls come on here advertising ... [snip!] ... are too young to even get a job. I was pregnant at 17 and sure as hell don't come on here calling myself a "proud teen mommy". "


That judgmental. I didn't live on welfare when I got pregnant and I was VERY happy to be a teen mom.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting paper planes:" I understand that you are just saying what's "normal" but there a few like me who overcame a lot of ... [snip!] ... mom. It's not fair to judge and bash teen moms on here just because they are young and you are protected by a computer screen."


I don't agree with people mean to people, especially teenagers that are faced with an unexpected pregnancy. I'm just saying, that's part of the struggle. You have to overcome the judgements, just like you have to overcome the statistics and stereotypes that come with teen parenting.

Senorita Lopez Due October 10; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Nassau, BA, Bahamas 5091 posts
status 16th Jun '13
Quoting paper planes:" That judgmental. I didn't live on welfare when I got pregnant and I was VERY happy to be a teen mom."


I was just giving my take on why I think women on here act like that towards the teen moms.

THE Draco Malfoy 1 child; Tennessee 19885 posts
16th Jun '13

Most of the ones i see that get negativity are like this post, they come in all up in arms to begin with. if you don't act like a mouthy teenager, people won't treat you like one.

Lilia's Mama (TTC#2) TTC since Aug 2013; 1 child; Florida 3592 posts
16th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting THE Draco Malfoy:</b>" Most of the ones i see that get negativity are like this post, they come in all up in arms to begin with. if you don't act like a mouthy teenager, people won't treat you like one."</blockquote>




Exactly my thoughts

. Way, MA, United States 73772 posts
status 16th Jun '13
Quoting THE Draco Malfoy:" Most of the ones i see that get negativity are like this post, they come in all up in arms to begin with. if you don't act like a mouthy teenager, people won't treat you like one."

Yep.

Samantha Lembo TTC since Jul 2012; 1 child; Bradenton, Florida 751 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting THE Draco Malfoy:" Most of the ones i see that get negativity are like this post, they come in all up in arms to begin with. if you don't act like a mouthy teenager, people won't treat you like one."


Mm-hmmm.

The Bear and The Bird 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42574 posts
16th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting paper planes:</b>" I was a teen mom. What can I say? You said it all. They are miserable and have no lives but one on BG."</blockquote>




You're back!

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
16th Jun '13

It's there because teen parents (aside from everyone being a mom regardless of age) generally have different challenges/needs. Unfortunately instead of talking about that most of them make stupid posts like "im like 16 and my baby daddyy don want me what do i dooo?"



That and the fact that the members of this site didn't design the forums and um it's not managed very well lol

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting The Bear and The Bird:" <blockquote><b>Quoting paper planes:</b>" I was a teen mom. What can I say? You said it all. They are miserable and have no lives but one on BG."</blockquote> You're back!"

Lol omg how many years has the Alyssa/BG drama been going on? lol

The Bear and The Bird 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42574 posts
16th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rd.:</b>" Lol omg how many years has the Alyssa/BG drama been going on? lol"</blockquote>




Going on 6 years at least :lol: i think she's hilarious, I'm always glad when she resurfaces

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; GoShox!, KS, United States 9195 posts
status 16th Jun '13
Quoting Rd.:" It's there because teen parents (aside from everyone being a mom regardless of age) generally have different ... [snip!] ... do i dooo?" That and the fact that the members of this site didn't design the forums and um it's not managed very well lol"


:shock:
there's management?




j/k j/k