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Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15439 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting paper planes:" Noo. I am talkinga bout people that post stuff like this: "Stop telling women Happy Father's Day. ... [snip!] ... about who they have kids with. Your day was last month. Stop stealing a day from those fathers who are worth the credit.""

I agree with everything they said. Oh, I get it, you want a medal for being a Single Mother. That's not how it works. The Men get shit on if they leave, but you still have as much Parental responsibility. You think you get extra credit because the guy you chose to procreate with left? No, just no.

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
16th Jun '13

umm..i haven't seen any post degraded single mothers. Either posts about their dads that they love or "to all the women who are both mothers and fathers" that is it......

Aly ♥ Marie 4 kids; 906 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting ILOVEWINE:" <blockquote><b>Quoting paper planes:</b>" Noo. I am talkinga bout people that post ... [snip!] ... more involved mother. I think it's really sad and petty that you think Father's Day is degrading to single mothers. Get over it"


Where did I say that Father's day is degrading to single mothers? :? I am pretty sure I said people that make stupid comments about mother's day celebrating the day is degrading. Especially the ones that have never had a child before. All the examples I've posted are from women who don't even have children.

homes cool 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 60938 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting paper planes:" "


I think she was very rude when she said that.



I do think fathers are fathers, mothers are mothers. But I don't see why SHE was so bitter about it..

Aly ♥ Marie 4 kids; 906 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" I agree with everything they said. Oh, I get it, you want a medal for being a Single Mother. That's not ... [snip!] ... as much Parental responsibility. You think you get extra credit because the guy you chose to procreate with left? No, just no."


I'm married. Not a single mom. I was when I was 17 but that was a long time ago. So please direct your comment to someone else.

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting paper planes:" Where did I say that Father's day is degrading to single mothers? :? I am pretty sure I said people ... [snip!] ... the ones that have never had a child before. All the examples I've posted are from women who don't even have children."


I don't think a person needs children to know when someone is being butt hurt about Fathers Day. Lol

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15439 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting paper planes:" Where did I say that Father's day is degrading to single mothers? :? I am pretty sure I said people ... [snip!] ... the ones that have never had a child before. All the examples I've posted are from women who don't even have children."

You said exactly that in your OP.



It has turned into nothing but a day to put hard working single mothers down on all of the HARD work they do.



^^^^ That's exactly what you said.

ℐαzmчn 2 kids; Somerset, Kentucky 12712 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting homes cool:" I've never seen any of my friends put down single moms. They're just thankful for their dads & their ... [snip!] ... I mean, I respect hard working mothers very much. But I have no hesitations to celebrate Father's Day for the men in my life."


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Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15439 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting paper planes:" I'm married. Not a single mom. I was when I was 17 but that was a long time ago. So please direct your comment to someone else."

Then why are you all up in arms hating on Father's Day?

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
16th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting paper planes:</b>" I'm married. Not a single mom. I was when I was 17 but that was a long time ago. So please direct your comment to someone else."</blockquote>




So you think you are better than your husband right? I mean because he obviously wasn't a single father. Lady get over it.

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
16th Jun '13

I'm a single mom. I don't celebrate myself on Father's day because I'm not a man. I do celebrate myself a little extra on Mother's Day. It's a very very tough day for me because I don't have a dad and neither does my daughter. What bothers me is when everyone posts shit about how they're glad their kids have a dad because they do better is school, are less likely to be teen moms, etc. If feels like they're putting down kids without dads.

Aly ♥ Marie 4 kids; 906 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" You said exactly that in your OP. It has turned into nothing but a day to put hard working single mothers down on all of the HARD work they do. ^^^^ That's exactly what you said."



Oh ok. Still don't see it...Where did I say it was degrading to single mothers? :lol: Reading comprehension please. Clearly I Was talking about the people who put down single mothers on fathers day. Read the WHOLE thing before you make a comment and then tell me what I "said".

Aly ♥ Marie 4 kids; 906 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" Then why are you all up in arms hating on Father's Day?"


I'm not hating on father's day. I am hating on the people that make comments like the ones I posted above. What don't you get? Lol

ℐαzmчn 2 kids; Somerset, Kentucky 12712 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting paper planes:" I'm not hating on father's day. I am hating on the people that make comments like the ones I posted above. What don't you get? Lol"


Are these people actually on your facebook friends? If not why stress yourself about it, you can't control what people say. Yeah it's annoying and rude but the best thing you can do is ignore it because it's not going to stop. If they are your friends on facebook and it bothers you so much, delete them.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15439 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting paper planes:" Oh ok. Still don't see it...Where did I say it was degrading to single mothers? :lol: Reading comprehension ... [snip!] ... who put down single mothers on fathers day. Read the WHOLE thing before you make a comment and then tell me what I "said"."

I read exactly what you wrote. You said Father's Day has turned into nothing but a day to put down hard working single mothers. How is putting down hard working single mothers not degrading?




You can sit and argue it all you want but the problem lies in you, not everyone else. You're acting like Single Mothers deserve some kind of reward or something, because they chose to keep their kids when the Dad walked away. No, they don't. They're doing what any parent SHOULD do. The Dad's that left are just shit. It doesn't make Father's Day any less deserving for some Fathers, but it doesn;t entitle a Woman to claim it as her own. People get annoyed when they, time and time again, see statuses about Women wanting to claim it. So they in turn make their own statuses.




But realistically, of all the God forsaken pathetic bullshit that's on Facebook, THIS is what you hate?