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Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15416 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting mαkαnαni:" Because you said you didn't think he should be punished for her lying to him about it. So if your daughter ... [snip!] ... about it. So if your daughter lied to an older man about her age and he had sex with her, you think he shouldn't be punished."

If my Daughter wants to have sex that badly, she's going to have sex.How would I punish him for believing her? I'd have had to believe her lies too, because that's not exactly normal behavior.



I don't go around asking for ID when I want to date someone, or for a Birth Certificate.

. , ., VA, United States 74435 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting mαkαnαni:" Yes. The law is the law regardless of ignorance or not giving a shit. It doesn't matter if it was the ... [snip!] ... was the day before her birthday. She's still 15 until that date. I find it gross and disturbing that his sentence is so light."

:!:
I agree with this. I guess that's the risk you take when you sleep with someone who you don't really know.

мɑkɑnɑni 1 angel baby; ~, FL, United States 65166 posts
status 16th Jun '13
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" If my Daughter wants to have sex that badly, she's going to have sex.How would I punish him for believing ... [snip!] ... that's not exactly normal behavior. I don't go around asking for ID when I want to date someone, or for a Birth Certificate."


By pressing charges against him. Turning him in if you found out.

. , ., VA, United States 74435 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting Crystal Marie S.:" Yeah that pic is almost a year and a half old."

I'm not trying to be a smartass or anything, but she must have matured a lot in that time. Both of those girls look like...well little girls to me.

Amanda + 1 *TTC 2014* TTC since Dec 2012; 1 child; Jacksonville, North Carolina 2104 posts
16th Jun '13

When it gets down to it its he said she said and alot of those people make up that story while others are actually telling the truth but how do you weed out the liars and honestly I ask for their ids but I live in a military town and the marines also ask for an id because of this and so they know we aren't lying about our name and I know they aren't lying about theirs because too many will say their name is this and it winds up being this who has a wife and 2 kids lol i hate the drama

Brantley+Savannah 2 kids; Mills River, NC, United States 3119 posts
16th Jun '13

Eh I was 14 and was able to buy drinks at a bar soooooo, idk. Also the article jut said she told his parents she would be 21 it never said anything about her telling him she would be 21. Either way, he's screwed, he had sex with a 15 year old when he was 31 if I understood correctly. Where in the hell does a 31 year old meet a 15 year old anyway.

. , ., VA, United States 74435 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting Brantley + 1:" Eh I was 14 and was able to buy drinks at a bar soooooo, idk. Also the article jut said she told his ... [snip!] ... with a 15 year old when he was 31 if I understood correctly. Where in the hell does a 31 year old meet a 15 year old anyway."

Did they just not card or did you have a fake i.d.?

laurenmik 3 kids; Aurora, Colorado 7222 posts
16th Jun '13

I lied to my husband about my age when we met..



And is the girl just completely not responsible for this situation at all? I'm sorry but at 15 you do know what you're doing.

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
16th Jun '13

this is sad. am i the only one who caught that he is mentally challenged? he couldnt percieve the difference between himself and the b***h who said she was 21. i totally believe she could look 21 at 15 ive seen that over and over. unfortunately the law is the law but i think she should be punished as well for lying tbh.

. , ., VA, United States 74435 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" this is sad. am i the only one who caught that he is mentally challenged? he couldnt percieve the difference ... [snip!] ... at 15 ive seen that over and over. unfortunately the law is the law but i think she should be punished as well for lying tbh."

Punished how?

мɑkɑnɑni 1 angel baby; ~, FL, United States 65166 posts
status 16th Jun '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" this is sad. am i the only one who caught that he is mentally challenged? he couldnt percieve the difference ... [snip!] ... at 15 ive seen that over and over. unfortunately the law is the law but i think she should be punished as well for lying tbh."


Technically she's a victim. Victims shouldn't be punished.

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
16th Jun '13
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CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
16th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ¿ ¼ ¿:</b>" Punished how?"</blockquote>




good question. im not saying jail time or anything but i feel there should be some repercussions(?) to what she did... if i found out my daughter was lying about her age to have sex with older men i would NOT be happy

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
16th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mαkαnαni:</b>" Technically she's a victim. Victims shouldn't be punished."</blockquote>




eh i guess i dont see her as a victim of anything. she lied about her age and had sex and duped an older man... she didnt suffer from anything. i guess considering her age if the guy knew she was 15 then it would be her taken advantage of cause 31.is way to old for a 15 year old. but, he isnt to blame if she kept him in the dark.

. , ., VA, United States 74435 posts
16th Jun '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" <blockquote><b>Quoting