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penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
17th Jun '13

But now according to Ehow there isn't a waiting period. I would call your courthouse and ask and see they would 100% know. If there is you can contest it and if they do get married it wouldn't be legal.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
17th Jun '13

I am sorry. If your daughter is pushed off as a result of the new babies he isn't a very good dad anyway. You will ger your happiness. Give it time. Everything is new.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
17th Jun '13

Wait, just because they are having twins and getting married doesn't guarantee a picture perfect life. I mean, look at the way it started off? Starting a relationship like that will set the tone and it is one that will surface down the line and will absolutely have a negative impact on their marriage. Trust this. Be glad you got out of it and at least have a chance at a better opportunity rather than settling down with a cheating scum bag.

☠BryBry'sMuM☠ Due March 19 (girl); 1 child; Fullerton, California 15229 posts
17th Jun '13

ya i thought the same thing about my ex. he got her pregnant (not sure if they got married or not, high possiblitiy) and i beleive he is now in jail for beating his wife. Karma's a b***h!!! His time will come

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53720 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting Jas ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BαtMαɳ:</b>" Don't worry yourself with what he ... [snip!] ... this and like I told M, she is going to drive herself crazy if she continues to worry about what we have going on over here."


I'm totally guilty of doing this with BD :oops: Thank goodness I had friends who weren't afraid to slap me with a reality check.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, CA, United States 53720 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting ♥ my~boysX3+1♥:" But now according to Ehow there isn't a waiting period. I would call your courthouse and ask and see ... [snip!] ... and ask and see they would 100% know. If there is you can contest it and if they do get married it wouldn't be legal. "


Or she can not even bother with any of it and not stick her nose in a relationship that isn't her business.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36457 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:" I am sorry. If your daughter is pushed off as a result of the new babies he isn't a very good dad anyway. You will ger your happiness. Give it time. Everything is new."


This!!!!

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36457 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting Just Ames:" Wait, just because they are having twins and getting married doesn't guarantee a picture perfect life. ... [snip!] ... glad you got out of it and at least have a chance at a better opportunity rather than settling down with a cheating scum bag."

All of this.



I got told all of this when this type of stuff went on with my ex. Grass isnt always greener on the other side.

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" I'm totally guilty of doing this with BD :oops: Thank goodness I had friends who weren't afraid to slap me with a reality check."


Just throw yourself a pity party and eat some cake instead. Cake it better.

user banned 2 kids; Moses Lake, Washington 13508 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting ♥ my~boysX3+1♥:" But now according to Ehow there isn't a waiting period. I would call your courthouse and ask and see ... [snip!] ... and ask and see they would 100% know. If there is you can contest it and if they do get married it wouldn't be legal. "


Why would you do this? I mean, just because you're not happy he shouldn't be either? This is pretty shitty. Really petty.

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting ♥ my~boysX3+1♥:" But now according to Ehow there isn't a waiting period. I would call your courthouse and ask and see ... [snip!] ... and ask and see they would 100% know. If there is you can contest it and if they do get married it wouldn't be legal. "


That's going to make her look like the crazy baby momma who isn't over her ex and needs a chill pill.

You and me + 4 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4121 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting ♥ my~boysX3+1♥:" I just looked because I was curious last night when you posted. And yea it's 6 months after"


Depends on the state. Once my SO is completely divorced we only have to wait a month for him to remarry. Cant get the dumb b***h to sign though.

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" Or she can not even bother with any of it and not stick her nose in a relationship that isn't her business."


I'm not saying she should it was just input. I would hate for someone to get married and then it not be legal in the end because of something like this whether I hated them or not.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting ☮[The Mrs.]:" That's going to make her look like the crazy baby momma who isn't over her ex and needs a chill pill. "

Right :lol:

*Booger Biscuit's Mom* 33 kids; Temecula, California 7301 posts
17th Jun '13

Checked with my lawyer (since he's BEHIND on child support payments anyways) and he said there is no waiting period. He did say that my child support could be lowered :( And now I just hear from my ex that even if I did get married he would not let my daughter change her last name. This day is full of great news.