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user banned 2 kids; Moses Lake, Washington 13508 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting *Booger Biscuit's Mom*:" Checked with my lawyer (since he's BEHIND on child support payments anyways) and he said there is no ... [snip!] ... from my ex that even if I did get married he would not let my daughter change her last name. This day is full of great news."


So? I imagine for him that would feel like disowning her or something. I take this as a sign that he loves his daughter and wants to keep up a relationship with her.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting *Booger Biscuit's Mom*:" Checked with my lawyer (since he's BEHIND on child support payments anyways) and he said there is no ... [snip!] ... from my ex that even if I did get married he would not let my daughter change her last name. This day is full of great news."


Ummm why would you try to stop him from being remarried? Also if he is in the childs life why would you try to change the childs last name? She is his as well....

JΔS Georgia 73196 posts
17th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Just Ames:</b>" :("</blockquote>




Oh Amy. I'll tell you about it in the ptot. She's a trip.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 63392 posts
status 17th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Booger Biscuit's Mom*:</b>" Checked with my lawyer (since he's BEHIND on child support payments anyways) and he said there is no ... [snip!] ... from my ex that even if I did get married he would not let my daughter change her last name. This day is full of great news."</blockquote>



Why the f**k would you want to change her last name anyways? That's her dad regardless of how shitty of a human being he is.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 63392 posts
status 17th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting BαtMαɳ:</b>" I'm totally guilty of doing this ... [snip!] ... a reality check."</blockquote> Well I wish she had friends like you have lol. She completely ruined M's Father's Day."</blockquote>




Damn. I'm sorry to hear that :(

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting *Booger Biscuit's Mom*:" Checked with my lawyer (since he's BEHIND on child support payments anyways) and he said there is no ... [snip!] ... from my ex that even if I did get married he would not let my daughter change her last name. This day is full of great news."


Okay. I need you to breath.....



Why the hell would you change her last just because you got married. He doesn't poof and disappear just because you get married. Regardless of the situation between you two you need to learn to parent together.



Don't be THAT BM.

JΔS Georgia 73196 posts
17th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮[The Mrs.]:</b>" Okay. I need you to breath..... Why the hell would you change her last just because you got married. ... [snip!] ... because you get married. Regardless of the situation between you two you need to learn to parent together. Don't be THAT BM."</blockquote>



!
PLEASE DON'T.



Because you will just look bitter and silly.

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
17th Jun '13

Also if you start acting batshit crazy you're going to drive a wedge between him and your daughter believe it or not. I would not want to have to go through a crazy person to see my child.

*Booger Biscuit's Mom* 33 kids; Temecula, California 7301 posts
17th Jun '13

I have her 85% of the time. He is an ALCOHOLIC. I have been fighting for full custody since we started the divorce process. He is supposed to be taking parenting classes- he hasn't, and he is supposed to be free of alcohol at least 24 hours before he sees her- he hasn't. He will have 2 new children to carry on his name. I took care of her when she was sick, I got her the speech therapy she needed. I pay for daycare when he is supposed to be paying half. If I eventually want to get remarried it will be because the man I pick will be a better father to her, that is why. She knows who my dad is (her poppie) more than her father. He is a good influence in her life, no her father.

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting *Booger Biscuit's Mom*:" I have her 85% of the time. He is an ALCOHOLIC. I have been fighting for full custody since we started ... [snip!] ... her, that is why. She knows who my dad is (her poppie) more than her father. He is a good influence in her life, no her father."


So all this voids the fact that he is her dad?



You let his come enter your vagina and swim up in you. Now you have to deal with him for AT LEAST the next 15 years. Embrace it, accept it. It doesn't matter if he has 33402938409238490 to carry his name she is still his.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 63392 posts
status 17th Jun '13
Quoting *Booger Biscuit's Mom*:" I have her 85% of the time. He is an ALCOHOLIC. I have been fighting for full custody since we started ... [snip!] ... her, that is why. She knows who my dad is (her poppie) more than her father. He is a good influence in her life, no her father."


And? I am 100% financially responsible for my son, his dad hasn't paid child support in over a year. He flakes on taking him a lot, especially now that he is back in the dating scene. I could go on and on and on about how much of an irresponsible parent he can be.



You are starting to sound really bitter, like you feel the need to control something out of all of this since you can't control him any longer. Chill out. Take a step back and let yourself heal. And stop worrying about this man and his life. That will always be his daughter no matter what.

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" And? I am 100% financially responsible for my son, his dad hasn't paid child support in over a year. ... [snip!] ... step back and let yourself heal. And stop worrying about his man and his life. That will always be his daughter no matter what."


I want the BM of the year award8)8)8). I don't bother my BD. When he wants to be around cool when he doesn't cool. He knows DS thinks DH is his daddy.



For a million dollars I couldn't tell you what the hell is going on in his life.

BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 63392 posts
status 17th Jun '13
Quoting ☮[The Mrs.]:" I want the BM of the year award8)8)8). I don't bother my BD. When he wants to be around cool when he ... [snip!] ... cool. He knows DS thinks DH is his daddy. For a million dollars I couldn't tell you what the hell is going on in his life. "


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I don't bother BD with much and I sure as hell don't get involved with his personal affairs, just like he doesn't get involved in mine. He drives me f**king insane but for the most part we have a good relationship for the sake of DS.

☮[The Mrs.] FJB Due December 4; 3 kids; North Carolina 14335 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting BαtMαɳ:" I don't bother BD with much and I sure as hell don't get involved with his personal affairs, just like ... [snip!] ... doesn't get involved in mine. He drives me f**king insane but for the most part we have a good relationship for the sake of DS."


Cake for your accomplishments!
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BαtMαɳ Secret Bat Cave, FK, Oman 63392 posts
status 17th Jun '13
Quoting ☮[The Mrs.]:" Cake for your accomplishments! "


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