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Cast Your Vote:

    • Abort It -- Votes: 21
    • Keep It -- Votes: 6
    • Give It Up For Adoption -- Votes: 19
Courtney Wray Due September 8 (boy); Japan 2 posts
17th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Captain Obvious:</b>" What does a heartbeat have to do with anything? The heart is just an organ...same as the stomach. I never hear anyone say "the stomach starts churning at __ weeks so it's a human!""</blockquote>




I agree! Bcuz no one calls it murder when we "pull the plug" on someone with a heartbeat! Until any of these ppl have walked a STEP in this girls shoes, like I have, they need to keep their judgments to themselves

Noah Edward's Mommy:) 1 child; Ohio 1478 posts
17th Jun '13

I got pregnant at 15 and had him at 15. My boyfriend just turned 16 so he could get a job while i stayed home with the baby. Both of our families supported us with keeping him so we always have help if needed. I would keep the baby if you have the support of family and if your boyfriend can get a job if you have one. But giving the baby up is always a good thing too. It is up to you on what to do just make sure you make it before the baby is born or it will hurt most. If you need anything feel free to write me on here!

♥ LA 1 child; ..., KY, United States 612 posts
18th Jun '13
Quoting Kenslie's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Captain Obvious:</b>" Oh you're sure she wouldn't have asked ... [snip!] ... If a woman doesn't want their child, put them up for adoption for a family who can't have babies, to have one given to them."


"I'm also pretty sure if she was raped, her parents would know."


Um, not everyone chooses to tell there parents immediately/ or ever for that matter. I was not raped, but molested at age 9, I didn't tell my mother until age 18 and still to this day haven't told my father about it and I am forced to see the person quite often.

Jenna1234 1 child; Iowa 543 posts
18th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kenslie's Mommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Captain Obvious:</b>" Oh you're sure she wouldn't have asked ... [snip!] ... If a woman doesn't want their child, put them up for adoption for a family who can't have babies, to have one given to them."</blockquote>




Many people who have experienced rape will keep it to themselves. There's a lot of emotions involved that you obviously haven't experienced. Being able to practically annonymously speak with others in a direct way, as in flat out saying what had happened, or speaking of after effects without stating what happened are coping mechanisms. Victims can feel responsible or that they deserved what happened to them among other feelings that seem completely ridiculous to others. It makes perfect sense that someone would come to a website to seek advice, directly or indirectly, if rape were the case. Its annonymous on their part. Telling parents or anyone you are close to can be avery hard thing to do and can take years before they feel even a little comfortable with talking about it. Especially at a young age when you don't always know or can comprehend what happened to you. You say you know about abortion because your a CNA and are telling people to shut up since they apparently know nothing compared to you, so I will say the same to you



You obviously know jack shit about the effects emotionally and socially rape can put upon someone, coping mechanisms and a lot of other things so its time for you to shut the f**k up on a situation your words are screaming that you don't understand. I applaud you for being so firm in your beliefs but your ignorance on the matter of how it effects someone when they have been raped is ridiculous. I'm APPALLED that someone supposedly in the medical field does not even think of the possibilities of trauma rape can have on someone. You should take it upon yourself to try and be understanding if rape is the case instead of assuming they feel in the right place to speak about it among other things.

Aussielover 1 child; Nunya, ga, United States 822 posts
19th Jun '13

Keep it or Adoption. I do not believe in abortion, I believe it is murder and its wrong. Tell your parents as soon as possible! Good luck

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Jillynne:" This is not the kind of thing you decide via internet poll."


I must agree.I choose adoption,you can always do an open adoption and see the baby.And is the father supportive?And telling your parents should be first step,and if your thinking about going any further with being pregnant,get prenatal care and be informed about what's going on in your body.And make sure you tell the father.And it says your keeping the baby on your page :) oh good luck.I wish the best to you.

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting kthx.:" Then why even put that as an option? So... your options are have the baby and keep it... or give it ... [snip!] ... think you could mentally handle it... a lot of grown women can't, much less a child)... I see that as the better alternative."


You just told her in your opinion abortion but you chose adoption?

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Kenslie's Mommy:" Also to add along with my last post, I am married & 19 weeks pregnant with a little girl. I am also 17 ... [snip!] ... family, cause the baby didn't ask to be brought here, YOU gave that baby a heartbeat which means YOU gave that baby life."


AGREED.I think adoption though :)

kthx. Due January 13 (girl); Cleves, Ohio 66650 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Rachel Tyson:" You just told her in your opinion abortion but you chose adoption?"


I do think she should abort. But, if she doesn't believe in it.... adoption is the next option.

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Kenslie's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Pusherman:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kenslie's ... [snip!] ... for over a year now, almost 2. Don't dare try to correct me. I KNOW what I'm talking about! So you, SHUT THE f**k UP! Dumbass."


5 week the fetal age is three your right,leave them.But abortion is not "murder" because it would be illegal its killing but its legal.I disagree to,but abortion causing controversy so you just have to live with people's opinions sadly :/

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting kthx.:" I do think she should abort. But, if she doesn't believe in it.... adoption is the next option."


I see,are you pregnant also ? :)

kthx. Due January 13 (girl); Cleves, Ohio 66650 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Rachel Tyson:" I see,are you pregnant also ? :)"


Trying.

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting kthx.:" Trying."


Oh well good luck I wish the best to you and your significant other :)

kthx. Due January 13 (girl); Cleves, Ohio 66650 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Rachel Tyson:" Oh well good luck I wish the best to you and your significant other :)"


Thanks!

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting kthx.:" Thanks!"


Welcome :)