ever have those daysss... Loka Lokita Washington 4628 posts17th Jun
When you and SO both had a shitty day, so you snap at eachother for no reason? I was trying to offer to help him with our son and he got defensive saying I was accusing him of hitting him (I didn't :/ ). Then he like slammed the door and is out sitting on the couch. I'm just giving him his space because I know he had a rough day, and then had to come home to me having a rough. day. Can't help but feel a little hurt tho :(
Amber ♡ Due August 11; 1 child; Kansas 17207 posts17th Jun
Yup, been there before. Just take some space from each other to just breathe and calm down!
tonys_mama(army wife) Due December 12; 19 kids; Fort Irwin, California 15486 posts17th Jun
What did you say to him that made him think you were saying he hit ds?
Loka Lokita Washington 4628 posts17th Jun
Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):" What did you say to him that made him think you were saying he hit ds?"
My DS still needs to be "put to sleep" and it takes like an hour. SO offered to do it tonight and I went to check on him after 30 minutes and he got frustrated when I asked if DS was sleeping yet. When I walked away I heard him say "go to sleep" and DS started screaming really loud. I walked in there with a cup of milk and he passed out. When SO came out of the bathroom I just calmly tried to say "If you feel angry with the kids, get up and walk away don't try to work through it if you're too mad' and he started bitching about how "I always accuse him of hurting the kids". He never has hurt them, but I am weary just because they're my babies and I read the news too much.
♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts17th Jun
Quoting Loka Lokita:" My DS still needs to be "put to sleep" and it takes like an hour. SO offered to do it tonight and I ... [snip!] ... him of hurting the kids". He never has hurt them, but I am weary just because they're my babies and I read the news too much."
Don't stress about it. Like you said he is having a rough day, anything you say can be blown out of proportion at this point. Best thing to do is what you are doing now..........giving him space and venting on here. :)