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Really how stupid can one be..... Tiffany Knickerbocker 19 kids; Indiana 519 posts
17th Jun '13

So my ex is divorcing her current wife.. That's fine I agree he has that right, but common I wish he would use his head a bit when it comes to our kids...



First off he has not explained to the kids he left their step mom three weeks ago for another girl. Instead he ships them off to their aunt all weekend and then has their aunt drop the kids off with her( a complete stranger to them) without even sitting down and explaining to them that he left their step mom.....




Now he is telling me she will be showing up at my house next weekend to pick up the kids and this will be the new arrangement because she does not want me knowing where they live. This is crazy. My kids have spent a total of an hour with her and cannot even tell me her first name and now she is going to take them.. Really idk how stupid my ex can be, but I'm not letting some random person show up at my door and take my kids.. Oh especially considering he says he is taking them next weekend I have no say in it(This is my weekend). I mean come on......

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 7043 posts
17th Jun '13

If there's not a court order I think i you need to get one regarding who can and can't pick up your kids. That's utter bullshit that he's having a new woman pick up his kids so you don't know where they live. Seriously? Tell him to grow the f*** up!

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
17th Jun '13

Sounds like a crazy situation. I wouldn't let that lady take your kids anywhere.

Crazy Train 18 kids; Killeen, Texas 1478 posts
17th Jun '13

Your ex sounds special

**Blessed_Insanity** 7 kids; Wyoming 18606 posts
17th Jun '13

Is that even legal? Like can they legally take your kids and have them somewhere wher eyou dont know where they are?

Jenny&Boopy 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 7294 posts
status 17th Jun '13

That's not right at all. And even with a court order he can't keep his address from you, you have to be able to know where your children are.

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
17th Jun '13

If she shows up at your door tell her you don't know who she and she isn't taking your kids.

California Dreaming ♡ TTC since Jan 2014; 3 kids; The Valley, CA, United States 2522 posts
status 17th Jun '13

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Tiffany Knickerbocker 19 kids; Indiana 519 posts
17th Jun '13

No I don't have to turn the kids over to her. He is just a controlling ass who wants to "run things" and he is mad because I'm going against his wishes and let my kids' stepmom see them. And legally he has to give me his address

**Blessed_Insanity** 7 kids; Wyoming 18606 posts
17th Jun '13
Quoting Tiffany Knickerbocker:" No I don't have to turn the kids over to her. He is just a controlling ass who wants to "run things" ... [snip!] ... and he is mad because I'm going against his wishes and let my kids' stepmom see them. And legally he has to give me his address"


Then no way in hell my kids would be going with him.

California Dreaming ♡ TTC since Jan 2014; 3 kids; The Valley, CA, United States 2522 posts
status 17th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiffany Knickerbocker:</b>" No I don't have to turn the kids over to her. He is just a controlling ass who wants to "run things" ... [snip!] ... and he is mad because I'm going against his wishes and let my kids' stepmom see them. And legally he has to give me his address"</blockquote>




Wow, don't hand your kids over to her...no way in hell.

Tiffany Knickerbocker 19 kids; Indiana 519 posts
17th Jun '13

I'm not going to let her take them. I don't even know what she looks like. I do know her name but that's only because the kids' step mom told me what it is. I figured if she wants to cause a scene let her.