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7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
18th Jun '13
Quoting *Mayhem*:" Thanks guys...and I agree with this...which is what I'm scared of. It wouldn't be fair to the baby whatsoever ... [snip!] ... got his carseat out of storage and ready...and I'm over here like "yep...if I pretend this isn't happening it won't happen". "

*off topic*
In the eyes of the law ,( if you give birth while married ) then your dh is named as the father (whether he is or not)

user banned 21 kids; North Dakota 3800 posts
18th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" *off topic* In the eyes of the law ,( if you give birth while married ) then your dh is named as the father (whether he is or not)"</blockquote>



He is but...ND is also a UPA state in which bio dad can challenge presumed paternity. So, he would have to take me to court and he would have to convince a judge that it's in the child's best interest to break up a family unit (which 3 lawyers have told us is going to be near impossible)...idk the fear is still there :(

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
18th Jun '13
Quoting *Mayhem*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" *off topic* In the eyes of the ... [snip!] ... to break up a family unit (which 3 lawyers have told us is going to be near impossible)...idk the fear is still there :("


does the loser even have the funds to attempt a court case?

user banned 21 kids; North Dakota 3800 posts
18th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" does the loser even have the funds to attempt a court case?"</blockquote>




I don't see how he can, he spends $150/night at the bar...but his parents do. Idk why I worry so much, it's just that he makes no frigging sense. I can see his whole "I want a paternity test but I don't want to be the father" text if I'd been harassing him about helping or paying but it'd been a good 2 months since I last talked to him. I even told him the baby wasn't his.

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
18th Jun '13
Quoting *Mayhem*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" does the loser even have the funds ... [snip!] ... him about helping or paying but it'd been a good 2 months since I last talked to him. I even told him the baby wasn't his."


save all the crappy texts he sends you.