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Ronnie RadKat 4 kids; Arizona 22962 posts
Jun 18th '13
Quoting Severus Snape:" A teen mom to me is someone who gets pregnant at or under age 18. Despite the fact that 19 has the word ... [snip!] ... just be mothers. The "teen mom" label has a negative connotation most of the time, and should be avoided if at all possible."



I guess my ex is a "teen" by your definition... he is 32, doesn't work, support himself or his children and still lives with his mom. :)



I'd say he's immature and irresponsible, which are common teen attributes but do not apply to all teens and are not necessary limited to those in their teens

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
Jun 18th '13
Quoting 36-24-36OnlyIfshes5-3:" I guess my ex is a "teen" by your definition... he is 32, doesn't work, support himself or his children ... [snip!] ... which are common teen attributes but do not apply to all teens and are not necessary limited to those in their teens "


Meh I'd say he is emotionally a teenager. Not physically, but like I said, to me teenager is state of mind more than an age. Turning 18 or turning 20 doesn't magically make you more mature. Physically, you are not a teen at 20, but emotionally it can happen much sooner than that. The emotional is what counts to me as I think it more accurately describes who people are on the inside vs jus who they are on the outside.

Mama Rice 34 kids; North Las Vegas, Nevada 11980 posts
Jun 18th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" I was just going to say this. Turning 18 doesn't mean you can take care of yourself 100% all of a sudden. You cannot turn into an adult overnight."</blockquote>



I kinda did. I left for basic training on my 18th birthday. My parents haven't supported me a day since. But I do agree that generally it doesn't happen that way, it takes a little bit to get on your feet.

Vitameatavegamin 19 kids; League City, Texas 5829 posts
Jun 18th '13

I think any age that ends in 'teen' is a teenager. Seems like common sense to me.
I had DD1 when I was 18. I was a mother who was also a teenager. Call me a 'teen mom' if you want. It's technically true. I wouldn't call myself that. I just say "I was still a teenager when I had my first kid". Not "I was a teen mom". *shrug* It's just facts either way you put it. You can also be a mother that's a teenager and be an adult at the same time.

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75118 posts
Jun 18th '13
Quoting Lady GooGoo
Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
Jun 18th '13
Quoting Destinite:" 13-19 anything with teen in the name."


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N's Momma☆ 1 child; Spain 2346 posts
Jun 20th '13

I consider myself a teen mom. I got pregnant at 18, and had my son at 19.