I haven't been on here for a couple months...I completely forgot about it till last night! Well my daughter is 6 months old already! time sure does fly by! I REALLY love being a parent!!
Well...The state filed for child support, be first they did a DNA test back in Feb. and he got tested a month later..due to the fact he kept getting moved from different jail to prison..then to a different prison. Obviously..my daughter is his...99.9998%!! I sent him the results...i didn't hear from him for a month and he tried using the excuse that "oh i sent you 13 letters" i checked the mail EVERYDAY!! I got a letter from him about 3 weeks ago telling me he was the one that stole the money(Over $400) from me, one time i was 4 months pregnant, and he cheated on me. At that point..i couldn't take it any longer! I called up to the prison and just ASKED about the "No Contact List" and i somehow ended up on there. In the process of talking to his counselor, the phone call got dropped, i called the next day and she told me it already took affect. So I just said fuck it!
About a month ago, i got a letter in the mail saying that we had a court date for child support, it got moved from Elmira, NY to Auburn, NY..and I live in Nebraska. I called up to Cayuga Court to see why it was up there, They couldn't tell me a answer! Well then i got a summons. I called back up there and they mailed me a paperwork so i can do it over the phone, i called the child support office here and asked. they said the ONLY reason why it got transferred up there was because my daughter was made up there lol but we didn't have sex in any of those towns. lol its whatever! I've been told that they will grant me custody during the hearing..i'm praying!!
Where was your daughter born? And how long have you been in Nebraska?
I'm born && raised in Nebraska...I moved to NY for 6 months (Jan 2012 to July 2012) my daughter was born in Nebraska.
Then since your daughter is a legal resident of Nebraska your child support case should be coming from there not NY. Last time I knew they didn't go by where your child was made but by where your child is/was a resident of. If that was the case mine would have been going out of Idaho for my child support instead of Nebraska.
Thats what i thought too but that's not how they're doing it..it sucks!
Was it court ordered by a judge in Nebraska?
I filed the petition in Nebraska..i haven't been to court or even talked to a judge at all.
Quoting ANS && BAM xD:" I filed the petition in Nebraska..i haven't been to court or even talked to a judge at all."
Wow! That's weird!