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I just want to punch my DH lol Carla +2 {EBF} 2 kids; Carencro, Louisiana 1378 posts
19th Jun '13

2 weeks ago started working out I would get up at 3:30am to breast feed my baby, by 4am i was doing my workout. and later will get ready for work.

Only last 2 weeks because during the day I was too tired ,while im at work.

Monday i go pick up the kids and when i got home got dress for my workout and of course i was going to cook first and do the thing I had to do. But he got so mad , I end up doing shit :(

Yesterday on my way home I tell him Im going to cook and then do my workout, he tells me ok yeah you can do your workout but im not going to help you with the chores ...
WTH, he helps me i cant complain but just because Im working out you going to stop helping me ???!!! Just 30 minutes workout , is not like i go to the gym I do it at our house smh...

Oh well guess I have to do everything after my workouts.

sorry lil vent over here!!

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7052 posts
19th Jun '13

:shock: I wouldn't fix dinner for him or do shit for him. Is there a reason why he's acting that way?

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15438 posts
19th Jun '13

Aww I'm sorry. That is one of the things asked of me when I started seeing a Trainer - if my SO was supportive or my decision. Apparently a lot of Men (from his perspective) are not supportive and it ends up with a lot of Ladies quitting their routine.



Don't let him get you down. Of course this is something the 2 of you need to work out between yourselves. You work, so does he. When you're home together everything is 100% both of your responsibilities. It's not like you're doing something crazy, you're making yourself healthier.

Carla +2 {EBF} 2 kids; Carencro, Louisiana 1378 posts
19th Jun '13

thats what i told him ..

Im not doing nothing bad IM AT HOME n***a!!!!

he's trying to loss weight , he's 'big guy' and just lazy doesnt want to workout with me, he started doing the paleo diiet i do his meal so he wont cheat. So why in the HELL i can't have 30 mins???

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15438 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Carla +2 {EBF}:" thats what i told him .. Im not doing nothing bad IM AT HOME n***a!!!! he's trying to loss weight ... [snip!] ... to workout with me, he started doing the paleo diiet i do his meal so he wont cheat. So why in the HELL i can't have 30 mins???"

I see. I think it's his own de-motivation telling you these things. He see's you working out and doing the things he knows he should be doing.

ℕightingale 1 child; Mississippi 7052 posts
19th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Carla +2 {EBF}:</b>" thats what i told him .. Im not doing nothing bad IM AT HOME n***a!!!! he's trying to loss weight ... [snip!] ... to workout with me, he started doing the paleo diiet i do his meal so he wont cheat. So why in the HELL i can't have 30 mins???"</blockquote>




Maybe he's feeling insecure? Like if you lose weight and start looking "good" you'll leave him.

Carla +2 {EBF} 2 kids; Carencro, Louisiana 1378 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Glo♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Carla +2 {EBF}:</b>" thats what i told him .. Im not doing ... [snip!] ... mins???"</blockquote> Maybe he's feeling insecure? Like if you lose weight and start looking "good" you'll leave him."


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hell no before this baby I was tiny , well not that tiny. I loss some weight

smallest i got
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and now
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Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15438 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Carla +2 {EBF}:" him hell no before this baby I was tiny , well not that tiny. I loss some weight smallest i got and now "

You know what's funny, in those pictures you look younger the older you got lol

Carla +2 {EBF} 2 kids; Carencro, Louisiana 1378 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Crystal
akmaldo 1 child; Georgia 2778 posts
19th Jun '13

Yeah he's just insecure... Keep it up mama!

pennylove 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Australia 1322 posts
19th Jun '13

he tell me all i care about fitness and my son, i feel like punchin my SO too all i do is a 1 hr workout when he is at work

Shealene Schuckers Due September 15 (boy); 1 child; Pennsylvania 384 posts
25th Jun '13
Quoting Glo♥:" :shock: I wouldn't fix dinner for him or do shit for him. Is there a reason why he's acting that way?"

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