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user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Jennybananna:" Maybe you should go tell his parents now. "


I never see his dad like that,maybe I can ask his mother to come from Manhattan and come to his part of town and we can sit them down and speak to them and tell them we're pregnant.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Rachel Tyson:" I never see his dad like that,maybe I can ask his mother to come from Manhattan and come to his part of town and we can sit them down and speak to them and tell them we're pregnant."

You are telling people the longer you wait to tell his parents the better chance of them finding out from someone else.

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting A❤T=P&W:" When's your appt? "


Today :) I;m excited,I wanna hear the heartbeat and see it :)

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36500 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Rachel Tyson:" Today :) I;m excited,I wanna hear the heartbeat and see it :) "


I thought you already had your appt to confirm your pregnancy?

Mann Makin' Mama[BBM] 18 kids; Dalton, Georgia 11563 posts
19th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" I thought you already had your appt to confirm your pregnancy? "</blockquote>




Me too!!



Bet it got "rescheduled."

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" I thought you already had your appt to confirm your pregnancy? "


I did.But this time its for a sonogram,questions and other things.How did you know that?

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Jennybananna:" You are telling people the longer you wait to tell his parents the better chance of them finding out from someone else."


I thought one of you guys already said don't tell them at the same time,now your telling me just tell them now..you guys are confusing me.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36500 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Rachel Tyson:" I did.But this time its for a sonogram,questions and other things.How did you know that?"


Geeee.... wizzz... I dont know maybe because you have pictures up on your profile of the papers you got from the doctor.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Rachel Tyson:" I thought one of you guys already said don't tell them at the same time,now your telling me just tell them now..you guys are confusing me."

Well obviously different people might have a different opinion. I see no point in waiting. You told your parents now tell his before they find out from someone else. There is no benefit to waiting.

JKBC♡ 2 kids; Windsor, PA, United States 9318 posts
19th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rachel Tyson:</b>" I thought one of you guys already said don't tell them at the same time,now your telling me just tell them now..you guys are confusing me."</blockquote>




You tell your parents, then tell his parents the same day just not all of them sitting together. It's not hard to comprehend, at least not with someone who has a working brain.

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Geeee.... wizzz... I dont know maybe because you have pictures up on your profile of the papers you got from the doctor. "


Oh yea,we confirmed through blood testing.W'ere going for a PRENATAL appointment this time.Last time I went I just went for my regular pap smear checkup,my urine tests,checks for cysts,etc.

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Jennybananna:" Well obviously different people might have a different opinion. I see no point in waiting. You told your parents now tell his before they find out from someone else. There is no benefit to waiting."


Well I decide when I want to them.And I say not yet.I have to just wait.I'm not ready,I need to tell my dad first.

LnghrnFan 2 kids; Colorado 26 posts
19th Jun '13

It sounds like you're a little overwhelmed, Rachel! If your boyfriend knows, I would think he would be the one that should tell his parents. Whether he wants you to be with him when he tells them or not will be his choice I guess. But I do agree with some of the others here. If you wait too long and tell others, they're going to find out from someone else...and their response might be more out of anger or hurt than it would be if they hear it from you or your boyfriend right away. Praying everything works out for you!

user banned Due February 3; 16 kids; New York 1070 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting LnghrnFan:" It sounds like you're a little overwhelmed, Rachel! If your boyfriend knows, I would think he would be ... [snip!] ... of anger or hurt than it would be if they hear it from you or your boyfriend right away. Praying everything works out for you!"


I think my father knows because he walked in,sat down,got up and went outside on the phone to speak to his girlfriend.I know my dad knows something when he he's awfully quiet.My dad is quiet but when he's really quiet I know something is up.My boyfriend wants me to be there,and I can understand why.We don't wanna tell any friends just as yet,we wanna tell our parents first.Yes I'm a little overwhelmed.I wonder how I'm gonna manage finances.School is not a problem but I think finances will be a bit.