My boyfriend is gone. user banned
19th Jun '13

My boyfriend and I told his mother tonight that we're pregnant.And his mother didn't take it to well and he stormed out,I thought nothing of it and he'd be back so I texted him after about thirty minutes and left voice mails and I contacted his friends.How soon can I file a missing persons?And he's 17 btw. I called but they said I can't file yet but if I say things that might give them a lot of concern,do you think that I can probably have them file earlier?

October2011 Due April 3; 1 child; Pennsylvania 6494 posts
19th Jun '13

WHat makes you think he's not coming back? sounds like he needed to clear his head.....how long has he been gone?

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
19th Jun '13

I'd assume he was fine, and just needed space...Is he really that unstable to run away and do something?

user banned 33 kids; British Columbia 2986 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Rachel Tyson:" My boyfriend and I told his mother tonight that we're pregnant.And his mother didn't take it to well ... [snip!] ... file yet but if I say things that might give them a lot of concern,do you think that I can probably have them file earlier?"


24-48 hours? He might just need space to process though! Or trying to talk to his mom and smooth things out.

Amber ♡ Due August 13; 1 child; Kansas 17681 posts
19th Jun '13

He probably just needs space. Leave him be.

October2011 Due April 3; 1 child; Pennsylvania 6494 posts
19th Jun '13

Oh wow I remember you! I'm totally unsubscribing to this thread now lol

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
19th Jun '13

you have to be his legal guardian to file a missing persons report since he's under 18 ... and even then it has to be 48 hours I believe.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Armpit, of, Ireland 29526 posts
19th Jun '13

You said a couple threads ago that he was 16. He's probably out knocking someone else up to give them that "11k" ring he gave you :lol:

Rachel Whalen 1 child; New York 406 posts
19th Jun '13

he will prob be back I wouldn't worry to much maybe he needs to clear his head. unless he has like a phycological issue wher you think he may hurt himself or someone else but hes prob fine just aggravated over the situation and needs to cool off

penispenispenisVAGINA 4 kids; Idaho 6992 posts
19th Jun '13

Since you found out you were pregnant and have JUST told his family he probably needed to clear his head. This is a big change in life. You need to remember he is a TEENAGER with raging hormones almost worse then a pregnant woman. Don't file a report just calm down and let him calm down.

Mann Makin' Mama[BBM] 18 kids; Dalton, Georgia 11563 posts
19th Jun '13

He's 16 remember. Doesn't turn 17 till July 13th....

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting tinana+2:" You said a couple threads ago that he was 16. He's probably out knocking someone else up to give them that "11k" ring he gave you :lol:"


:shock:
zomg
:lol:

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Armpit, of, Ireland 29526 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting ♥ my~boysX3+1♥:" Since you found out you were pregnant and have JUST told his family he probably needed to clear his head. ... [snip!] ... a TEENAGER with raging hormones almost worse then a pregnant woman. Don't file a report just calm down and let him calm down. "


Not to mention... poor impulse control, ADHD, and possible Bipolar.

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
19th Jun '13
Quoting Rachel Tyson:" My boyfriend and I told his mother tonight that we're pregnant.And his mother didn't take it to well ... [snip!] ... file yet but if I say things that might give them a lot of concern,do you think that I can probably have them file earlier?"


I thought he was 16?

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
19th Jun '13

You just posted a few hours ago that you were getting ready to tell them so it's been what 2hrs since he left? Give him time.