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can i fire my kids father and hire another one? I Stab People 3 kids; Zambia 6604 posts
21st Jun '13

seriously.



last sunday on fathers day he was supposed to come pick them up for church at 8 am. our oldest is almost 8 and our middle is 6-- theyre not little babies.



my oldest was texting him ALL MORNING. he finally showed up t 230, hung over and puked in my bathroom as soon as he got there.



this weekend, to make it up TO THEM he was supposed to take them overnight at his apt. it would be his first time taking them anywhere since he left 6 months ago.



my kids were SOOOOO excited! i made plans to go on a date with my new SO-- who we havnt actually been on a date since, god i dont even know anymore, there was snow on the ground, since i cant rely on him at all to take them ever.



so now he says he cant take them unless i let him drive 4 hours away with him to his dads, in his POS car which doesnt have insurance, and he refuses to RF our 18 month old, to his father, who started a all out brawl with me on FACEBOOK calling me a pos, a horrible mom, a lazy fat ass, etc you name it. i deleted him and he had his sisters attack me on facebook after that! i mean come on.



so i said no, absolutely not. that he already said he would take them so he HAS to take them, he already told our kids he would. now he says hes going to his dads instead.



like i cant deal with this shit. i cant deal with him hurting them every weekend



my car is broke, i have no money, i work constantly and get no time off, and then when i try to vent to my friend (she has no kids btw) she said i shouldnt have hd kids if i want to pawn them off to everyone.



i have my kids 24/7 or im at work. i never go out, i never do anything BECAUSE I ALWAYS HAVE MY KIDS. how am i pawning them off?? because i work 40 hours a week and god forbid want one night off in 6 months??



i just fail at life. i want to be done.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
21st Jun '13

Your kids dad is a jerk and your friend is a b***h. I'm sorry things suck right now, I hope they start looking up soon.

The Pretender 2 kids; Brazil 1215 posts
21st Jun '13
Quoting Abby Normal:" Your kids dad is a jerk and your friend is a b***h. I'm sorry things suck right now, I hope they start looking up soon."


! Yeah, what she said.

.Rae.ღ Due August 29 (girl); 1 child; Austin, Texas 397 posts
21st Jun '13

You are not pawning them off. Those are his children.

I think you are taking it hard on yourself because once again he has disappointed your kids and YOU have to be there to break it to them and see their little faces when once again, he doesn't show. So sorry , really wish you could hire another. :cry:

Black Cat 1 child; Fancy, PA, United States 3753 posts
21st Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Abby Normal:</b>" Your kids dad is a jerk and your friend is a b***h. I'm sorry things suck right now, I hope they start looking up soon."</blockquote>



Exactly! I hope things get better. I really don't feel like you were unreasonable.
I wish I could fire my son's father too, so I feel your pain.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50789 posts
status 21st Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Abby Normal:</b>" Your kids dad is a jerk and your friend is a b***h. I'm sorry things suck right now, I hope they start looking up soon."</blockquote>agreed

*Mandy*Team BluE!! 1 child; San Antonio, Texas 1334 posts
21st Jun '13

I'm sorry he's a POS dad. Hope things get better for you soon.
Next time he makes plans I wouldn't even bother telling your kids about the plans so they don't get sad when he flakes.