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user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
22nd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" then I guess her mother deserves this eh"</blockquote>




No one said that. :arrow:
'The f**k, girl?

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
22nd Jun '13
Quoting The Original Mayhem.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" then I guess her mother deserves this eh"</blockquote> No one said that. :arrow: 'The f**k, girl?"


no, but calling the mother 'stupid' really? is that fair? no matter what mistake she made, she has lost her baby in one of the sickest ways possible

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
22nd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" no, but calling the mother 'stupid' really? is that fair? no matter what mistake she made, she has lost her baby in one of the sickest ways possible"</blockquote>



Yeah, it was insensitive to say. But letting her child go off with some man she just met wasn't smart, was it? That's quite obvious. That doesn't mean that anyone thinks she deserved it, so don't try to turn this shit into a debate.

*~AngelEyes~* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Memphis, Tennessee 10380 posts
22nd Jun '13

That is so sad... and not a smart move on the mother. I wouldn't say she was stupid, but wasn't using her head when she let her daughter go off with him. I'm sure this is a lesson learned for her, and I pray that she gets through this okay. Losing your baby is absolutely horrible, especially in a way such as this. :-(

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
22nd Jun '13
Quoting The Original Mayhem.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" no, but calling the mother 'stupid' ... [snip!] ... it? That's quite obvious. That soesnt mean that anyone thinks she deserved it, so don't try to turn this shit into a debate."


Im not trying to turn anything into a debate. I think its disgusting of mothers to sit around judging another mother when she just lost her child. There IS nothing to debate about that.

*Mary Moon* 1 child; New York 3601 posts
22nd Jun '13

That's so sad. I hate hearing about stuff in Jacksonville. I'm from a small town so the thought of living there some day scares me. When we went to visit in 2010 some one was shot right at a Walmart. Can't remember if this was the Walmart or not. DHs parents live there and I love the area, just shell shock compared to this small town. Guess bad things happen everywhere. What was the mother thinking? My mind keeps saying, the mom must have known the dude...because half the time that's how it works. I mean you can't be shopping along and give some dude your kid to take to McDonald's? Doesn't make sense :(

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
22nd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:</b>" Im not trying to turn anything into a debate. I think its disgusting of mothers to sit around judging another mother when she just lost her child. There IS nothing to debate about that. "</blockquote>




Well IMO you were putting words in people's mouths (er, fingertips?) And it was shitty. No one said she deserved it. But you seem to have responded as though they did. Which is dumb and somewhat confusing. But whatever.

Snow 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
22nd Jun '13
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" then I guess her mother deserves this eh"


I'm not saying her mother deserves this. No one deserves this. It is absolutely awful and I feel very sorry for the mother but i do think she is somewhat at fault as well.

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
22nd Jun '13

I don't care what anyone says, that mother is dumb as rocks. I'd say she should be charged with child endangerment but she's already got the worst punishment possible.

JΔS Georgia 72940 posts
status 22nd Jun '13
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" He took advantage of the mother, and used his sick skills to gain her trust and steal her baby, Im sure ... [snip!] ... and steal her baby, Im sure raped her, and the killed her. Yet you ladies feel better calling a grieving mother 'stupid' SMH"


She is stupid. If he was a stranger, don't let your kid go with them :idea:
I wouldn't even let my kids be alone with my own brother :lol:



No one is saying she deserved anything but HIGH FIVE for putting words in all of our mouths. You're so typical.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
22nd Jun '13
Quoting Jas ♥:" She is stupid. If he was a stranger, don't let your kid go with them :idea: I wouldn't even let my kids ... [snip!] ... brother :lol: No one is saying she deserved anything but HIGH FIVE for putting words in all of our mouths. You're so typical."


high five for compassion

JΔS Georgia 72940 posts
status 22nd Jun '13
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" high five for compassion"


I have no compassion for parents who stupidly put their children in harms way. It was a dumb decision and while I feel bad that she lost her child, she is to blame for that. Wah Wah.

Sophia's Mommy♥ 1 child; Hollywood, Florida 10166 posts
22nd Jun '13
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" He took advantage of the mother, and used his sick skills to gain her trust and steal her baby, Im sure ... [snip!] ... and steal her baby, Im sure raped her, and the killed her. Yet you ladies feel better calling a grieving mother 'stupid' SMH"


She is stupid. I'd never let my child go with someone I JUST met in a grocery store, would you?

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
22nd Jun '13
Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:" She is stupid. I'd never let my child go with someone I JUST met in a grocery store, would you?"


lord no I wouldnt



but I also wouldnt bash a grieving mother

JΔS Georgia 72940 posts
status 22nd Jun '13
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" lord no I wouldnt but I also wouldnt bash a grieving mother "


Why wouldn't you?