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Kimber-lily Due September 27; 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
22nd Jun '13
Quoting Sweet Baby Blue:" Well I can completely relate. My SIL is the EXACT same way!! I feel like we're talking about the same ... [snip!] ... Hang in there! Hang on to your sanity. And DH is always defending her and asking why I won't let her baby sit. SERIOUSLY??!!"


You're SIL keeping her kids and being abusive vs. OPs SIL giving her children to someone who can care for them better are completely different.

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; GoShox!, KS, United States 9199 posts
22nd Jun '13
Quoting Sweet Baby Blue:" Well I can completely relate. My SIL is the EXACT same way!! I feel like we're talking about the same ... [snip!] ... Hang in there! Hang on to your sanity. And DH is always defending her and asking why I won't let her baby sit. SERIOUSLY??!!"


Hey at least she went outside to smoke the joint.



She could have lit up right in front of you kid. :shock:

mom of three 3 kids; Missouri 5080 posts
22nd Jun '13
Quoting Kimber-lily:" You're SIL keeping her kids and being abusive vs. OPs SIL giving her children to someone who can care for them better are completely different."


I agree!

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 19809 posts
22nd Jun '13
Quoting Kimber-lily:" You're SIL keeping her kids and being abusive vs. OPs SIL giving her children to someone who can care for them better are completely different."


This is what I was thinking. At least OP's SIL is doing right by her kids. No matter her reasons, better the kids be taken care of then to be around all of that.

KristaAnne 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ, VT, United States 19461 posts
status 22nd Jun '13

You can always vent in my PTOT hun
I totally missed this post so I have no idea what it said. I just wanted to let you know that you can vent in there.

Sweet Baby Blue 1 child; San Jose, California 660 posts
24th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-lily:</b>" You're SIL keeping her kids and being abusive vs. OPs SIL giving her children to someone who can care for them better are completely different."</blockquote>



She didn't keep her kids! She sent them to MIL everyday and would leave them everywhere! My husband took care of them. And when the oldest turned 14 she ran away to her dads house 3 hours away. And her youngest ran away soon after.
Her daughter got a job and made money, but since he was under 18 her mom went and took all the money out. A lot of it. And then burned her social and birth certificate so he would have a hard time getting another job.



And if you ladies don't mind someone watching your baby but going outside to smoke a joint and leaving your 4 month old LO then I must be a one of a kind kind Of mom to not want that lady around my kid. But if you guys want your sitter smoking and high, as long as its not in front of them then do whatever floats your boat. But I'm not that kind of mom.