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user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting **mummyX2.5**:</b>" Telling ur kid your going to beat them isnt the same as beating them i dont see that alone as making her a bad parent and a reason for to not be aloud more kids"</blockquote>



Threatening to abuse a child isnt parenting or saying something out of frustration. You really think that a parent who tells their child she's going to punch her in the face is doing an okay job and should have another? And don't answer "it's not my business" because child abuse is everyone's business.

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
23rd Jun '13

If she's abusive, call CPS. And abuse can be verbal, FYI.

user banned TTC since May 2013; Chesapeake, Virginia 1120 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting Kimber-lily:" How many kids do you have OP?"

i dont have any why

user banned TTC since May 2013; Chesapeake, Virginia 1120 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting La~La:" I think......I think.... I think its none of your damn business honestly. If youre not f**king her or paying her bills you've got no right to an opinion of her having another kid."


wow ok but i was just saying u dont needa get smart

user banned TTC since May 2013; Chesapeake, Virginia 1120 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting Severus Snape:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Amber:</b>" That's her life, her business."</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... Don't like how she parents? Then tell her or don't be her friend. Talking crap about her in here just makes you look bad."


well i heard everything she was saying on the phone too her daughter long time ago her own dad says shes not a good mom

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting cute eyes:</b>" i dont have any why"</blockquote>



Probably because you may not understand the frustrations raising a child can bring. But I agree that it's not okay for her to talk to her daughter like that.

mamaofarunner 1 child; Kansas City, Kansas 1670 posts
23rd Jun '13

She is verbally and emotionally abusing her child from what you just told us. Maybe you should call CPS!!!

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting Abby Normal:" <blockquote><b>Quoting cute eyes:</b>" i dont have any why"</blockquote> Probably ... [snip!] ... the frustrations raising a child can bring. But I agree that it's not okay for her to talk to her daughter like that."


I've said some things I'm not proud of to DD in my weaker moments, but I've never threatened to hurt her... I don't think that's normal lol

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting cute eyes:</b>" well i heard everything she was saying on the phone too her daughter long time ago her own dad says shes not a good mom"</blockquote>




I have no doubts that you're probably right, but again it's none of your business.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rd.:</b>" I've said some things I'm not proud of to DD in my weaker moments, but I've never threatened to hurt her... I don't think that's normal lol"</blockquote>



Yeah, I can understand that.



Frequently saying threatening things to your child, I'd worry that she might follow through with them one day.

user banned TTC since May 2013; Chesapeake, Virginia 1120 posts
23rd Jun '13
she told me all this mess on the phone lomg time ago i aint Quoting Severus Snape:" <blockquote><b>Quoting cute eyes:</b>" well i heard everything she was saying on the ... [snip!] ... shes not a good mom"</blockquote> I have no doubts that you're probably right, but again it's none of your business."


she told me this her self on the phone long time ago

Sara❥ TTC since May 2014; 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 8712 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting cute eyes:</b>" she told me this her self on the phone long time ago"</blockquote>




You keep saying a long time ago, that means it hasn't happened recently? Correct? If this is all in the past why does it matter now?

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting cute eyes:" she told me this her self on the phone long time ago"


ok... I get that. You're not getting what I'm saying here.
If she's endangering her children, then you need to call CPS. Otherwise, you need to mind your own business...

**mummyX3** 3 kids; Australia 1071 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting Rd.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting **mummyX2.5**:</b>" Telling ur kid your going to beat them isnt ... [snip!] ... doing an okay job and should have another? And don't answer "it's not my business" because child abuse is everyone's business."


we have absolutely no idea of exactly what was said or how it was said if op thought the child was being abused she should have called cps when it happened which according to her was a long time ago... she obviously wasnt that concerned