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strain on relationship? babydelicious 2 kids; Connecticut 168 posts
23rd Jun '13

has anyone lived with their MIL? if so has it put a strain on your relationship? this is a yes or no.. pls keep comments out.

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
23rd Jun '13

I haven't, but I would imagine it would seeing as she smokes and doesn't respect no smoking in my home.



ETA: Just stop posting and log off for today.

user banned 21 kids; North Dakota 3800 posts
23rd Jun '13

Holy fuck lady...

loser mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, ,, Norway 10904 posts
23rd Jun '13

Why can't we comment?

3sACrowd 3 kids; Alaska 3391 posts
23rd Jun '13

We don't really get along, but we're working on our relationship. So at this point, yes it would be a strain.

Naturally Alternative 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Lafayette, Louisiana 6304 posts
23rd Jun '13

Living with ANYONE besides kid/s is a strain on a relationship in my opinion... but it's definitely worth it in some instances. We lived with my MIL after he was discharged from the Air Force. She was great but not having privacy is hard.



Sometimes you make sacrifices for family. In this instance she made a sacrifice for us and we would in a heart beat back for her if she needed it.

babydelicious 2 kids; Connecticut 168 posts
23rd Jun '13

thats what i mean.. like our privacy wouldnt be at all..like we had our issues in the past.. dont get me wrong i like his mom but i need my privacy..

user banned 21 kids; North Dakota 3800 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting babydelicious:</b>" thats what i mean.. like our privacy wouldnt be at all..like we had our issues in the past.. dont get me wrong i like his mom but i need my privacy.."</blockquote>



So you had privacy with the other people who lived with you? Dude...you've spawned 2 more pointless threads after the first one you posted in which everyone told you that you were a fucking cunt. As another poster said, step away from the computer...and as yet another poster said, why don't you worry about important things...like being a mom to your first daughter before you TTC a "sister" for your "new" baby.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Mayhem*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting babydelicious:</b>" thats what i mean.. like our privacy wouldnt ... [snip!] ... don't you worry about important things...like being a mom to your first daughter before you TTC a "sister" for your "new" baby."</blockquote>




:!: pretty fucking much.

Naturally Alternative 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Lafayette, Louisiana 6304 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting babydelicious:" thats what i mean.. like our privacy wouldnt be at all..like we had our issues in the past.. dont get me wrong i like his mom but i need my privacy.."


... like others have said, she's family. Sometimes you make sacrifices for family. She doesn't intend to stay forever, just until she can pick herself up. That's your soon to be husband's mother! Have some heart and don't ask him to turn his own mother away for your own comfort.



I second what Mayhem said...

babydelicious 2 kids; Connecticut 168 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting babydelicious:" has anyone lived with their MIL? if so has it put a strain on your relationship? this is a yes or no.. pls keep comments out."


since some people cant say anything but negatives, why dont u keep my other child out your mouth and dont worry how i take care of mine.. like seriously? i said no comments if they negative but if you cant read, not my fault..

Juggernog-aholic 4 kids; 2 angel babies; P, AR, United States 20226 posts
23rd Jun '13

There's nothing to be modded in here OP.

babydelicious 2 kids; Connecticut 168 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting Naturally Alternative~35w:" ... like others have said, she's family. Sometimes you make sacrifices for family. She doesn't intend ... [snip!] ... mother! Have some heart and don't ask him to turn his own mother away for your own comfort. I second what Mayhem said..."

but the problem is, the landlord after i had ppl stay here dont want that.. and we are trying to help her find a place that she can afford.. she gave up her section 8 when her daughter got it back for her... and theres other reasons i cant let her stay here... so dont agree with someone when you dont know the real reason.

Drunk Blair Waldorf 2 kids; Alpharetta, Georgia 19208 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting babydelicious:" since some people cant say anything but negatives, why dont u keep my other child out your mouth ... [snip!] ... dont worry how i take care of mine.. like seriously? i said no comments if they negative but if you cant read, not my fault.."


Clearly you have trouble writing simple sentences. Nowhere in your OP does it state that people need to leave their NEGATIVE comments out of your thread. It just says no comments. That's kind of broad and when you're asking for people to respond, that's technically a comment. :roll:

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting babydelicious:</b>" since some people cant say anything but negatives, why dont u keep my other child out your mouth ... [snip!] ... dont worry how i take care of mine.. like seriously? i said no comments if they negative but if you cant read, not my fault.."</blockquote>




I'm not worried about how you are taking care of yours I'm worried about how your NOT taking care of yours.