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... TONii=] 1 child; Massachusetts 250 posts
23rd Jun '13

Thanks to everyone who had legitimate advice, or stories about there own experiences. it's very much appreciated, thank you.

user banned 21 kids; North Dakota 3800 posts
23rd Jun '13

I'd tell. I also would have pressed charges on him myself, although you were in the wrong, also.

Amber ♡ Due August 13 (boy); 1 child; Kansas 18757 posts
23rd Jun '13

You had no right to hit him or break his TV. You both were wrong. You should have left with your sister and called the police.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
23rd Jun '13

Yeah, I'd let your other sister know. you guys have to get her away from him.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
23rd Jun '13

Someone should call the police on all of you. Again.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
23rd Jun '13

Broken TV would have been the least of the worries for a man who did that to my sister.

Just Niki 19 kids; Oregon 1456 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:</b>" Yeah, I'd let your other sister know. you guys have to get her away from him. "</blockquote>



Definitely do not let her go back!

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
23rd Jun '13

You shouldn't have hit him. Not only because it's wrong/illegal but also for your own safety. Your sister needs to make a police report and leave him.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
23rd Jun '13

You really should have just picked her up and left and went straight the the PD to file a police report. I know they say hindsight is 20/20 but youshouldnt have gotten physical with the guy, for your and her own safety, it could've been much worse.

TONii=] 1 child; Massachusetts 250 posts
23rd Jun '13

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Simply, Mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Upland, 11704 posts
23rd Jun '13

The police need to be called and you were in the wrong to do what you did.



She needs to get a restraining order and be done with that.

Amber ♡ Due August 13 (boy); 1 child; Kansas 18757 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting TONii=]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Amber:</b>" You had no right to hit him or break his ... [snip!] ... I don't expect anyone not of color to understand being called a n****r.. Can we over look that part"


No you should have been the bigger person.

TONii=] 1 child; Massachusetts 250 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:</b>" Broken TV would have been the least of the worries for a man who did that to my sister. "</blockquote>



I know he's lucky I was her SISTER and not her BROTHER or FATHER

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15526 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting TONii=]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Amber:</b>" You had no right to hit him or break his ... [snip!] ... I don't expect anyone not of color to understand being called a n****r.. Can we over look that part"


Just because he called you a name doesn't mean you had any right to put your hands on him. I have been called a "cracker" by a black girl and didn't beat her up over it. I understand you were upset about him hitting your sister but you shouldn't have hit him. In my eyes he had every right to defend himself.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; South Land, CA, United States 117050 posts
status 23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:</b>" Broken TV would have been the least of the worries for a man who did that to my sister. "</blockquote>




Amen!



Tell your other sister and I would press charges just so there is documentation of abuse. You never know what could happen