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user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting TONii=]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:</b>" Broken TV would have been the ... [snip!] ... for a man who did that to my sister. "</blockquote> I know he's lucky I was her SISTER and not her BROTHER or FATHER"

Yeah, no shit. He sounds like a massive douche. All the while, he's naked. I can't even...damn.



She's gotta get away from him for good. It's so hard and I know she probably feels like she loves him but that's not love.

3sACrowd 3 kids; Alaska 3397 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting Simply Mom:" The police need to be called and you were in the wrong to do what you did. She needs to get a restraining order and be done with that."

This.



If he wanted to be more of an a*****e, he could have filed assault charges against you and property damage. I would have just grabbed my sister and left. I know that the n word offends and hurts people, but it just wasn't worth it because as you said, he could have killed you.



Tell her to stay far away from him and to get a restraining order. She should also get him for assault charges.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TONii=]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:</b>" Broken TV would have been the ... [snip!] ... for a man who did that to my sister. "</blockquote> I know he's lucky I was her SISTER and not her BROTHER or FATHER"</blockquote>



And you're lucky that he didn't kill you and your sister.

Amber + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19442 posts
status 23rd Jun '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:</b>" Broken TV would have been the ... [snip!] ... Tell your other sister and I would press charges just so there is documentation of abuse. You never know what could happen"


She would be charged too. Especially if SHE hit him first... They'd probably both me hauled to jail.

bia. Due August 13; 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 76350 posts
status 23rd Jun '13
Quoting ☮ Amber:" You had no right to hit him or break his TV. You both were wrong. You should have left with your sister and called the police."


I would beat any guys ass if he hit my sister...f**k that, little b***h!

TONii=] 1 child; Massachusetts 250 posts
23rd Jun '13

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Amber + 2♡ 2 kids; Kansas 19442 posts
status 23rd Jun '13
Quoting bia.:" I would beat any guys ass if he hit my sister...f**k that, little b***h!"


Oh ya, smart idea.

❀Sarah❀ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Cocking, EU, Europe 126150 posts
status 23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Amber:</b>" She would be charged too. Especially if SHE hit him first... They'd probably both me hauled to jail."</blockquote>




Small price to pay I guess. I've been with someone abusive before I'll be damned if that happens to one if my siblings

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
23rd Jun '13

this is NOT OP's fault. Hitting him may not have been the best idea, but lets not forget that this drunk, naked, abusive man terrorized his girlfriend to the point where she thought he was going to kill her. THAT is the issue.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Amber:</b>" She would be charged too. Especially if ... [snip!] ... Small price to pay I guess. I've been with someone abusive before I'll be damned if that happens to one if my siblings"


Exact same here.

tonys_mama(army wife) Due August 2; 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15581 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:</b>" Broken TV would have been the ... [snip!] ... Tell your other sister and I would press charges just so there is documentation of abuse. You never know what could happen"


She will probably be put in jail for assault and property damage.

tonys_mama(army wife) Due August 2; 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15581 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:</b>" Broken TV would have been the ... [snip!] ... Tell your other sister and I would press charges just so there is documentation of abuse. You never know what could happen"


She will probably be put in jail for assault and property damage.

TONii=] 1 child; Massachusetts 250 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Abby Normal:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting TONii=]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm ... [snip!] ... I was her SISTER and not her BROTHER or FATHER"</blockquote> And you're lucky that he didn't kill you and your sister."</blockquote>



I totally agreed but you'de probably think it was different if I was a man.

tonys_mama(army wife) Due August 2; 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15581 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift Ph.D:</b>" Broken TV would have been the ... [snip!] ... Tell your other sister and I would press charges just so there is documentation of abuse. You never know what could happen"


She will probably be put in jail for assault and property damage.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting tonys_mama(army wife):" She will probably be put in jail for assault and property damage. "


Yeah you've said this like 3 times now, we get it.