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Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50791 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting You and me + 3:</b>" What are some things you guys have done to preoccupy your time to get over breakups? Ive clean the ... [snip!] ... and i still find myself in my free time crying and my mind wondering. Anything else i can do to preoccupy my time and mind?"</blockquote>




I get new bedding and pillows so that it won't smell like the person anymore.



Time momma. I focus on the good of the break up. Since I've done that my divorce was nothing.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
23rd Jun '13

You left him? Good for you! Its only just the beginning! :). I would have someone babysit, get all gussied up and go out with some girlfriends. Start living single honey.

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting Hy'ska:" <blockquote><b>Quoting You and me + 3:</b>" What are some things you guys have done ... [snip!] ... smell like the person anymore. Time momma. I focus on the good of the break up. Since I've done that my divorce was nothing."


Yea it would help to change all the bedding lol

♥Love♥ TTC since Jun 2013; 2 angel babies; California 6371 posts
23rd Jun '13

My friends helped me alot one time by saying I should text her whenever I got the urge to text him, that helped alot. Like if I wanted to tell someone a funny store/thing I saw (something I normally would have texted him), text her. I think talking to people on BG will help. Watching tv, something really funny or otherwise grabs your attention. Getting back out there helped me by going on a casual date, just to show myself that there were other guys out there that might be interested in me. That helped ALOT. Some people dont agree with that and say you are on the "rebound" but it worked out for me

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting Pusherman:" You left him? Good for you! Its only just the beginning! :). I would have someone babysit, get all gussied up and go out with some girlfriends. Start living single honey."


yea i left. i dont have much family so id probably have to take them with me lol

♥Love♥ TTC since Jun 2013; 2 angel babies; California 6371 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting Hy'ska:" <blockquote><b>Quoting You and me + 3:</b>" What are some things you guys have done ... [snip!] ... smell like the person anymore. Time momma. I focus on the good of the break up. Since I've done that my divorce was nothing."


Thats a good idea!

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting ♥Love♥:" My friends helped me alot one time by saying I should text her whenever I got the urge to text him, that ... [snip!] ... interested in me. That helped ALOT. Some people dont agree with that and say you are on the "rebound" but it worked out for me "


Yea i just had to block a friend bc i went to her and every time ive tried shes been too busy but friends are helping as they can. Im pregnant so dating is out for now.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50791 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting You and me + 3:</b>" Yea it would help to change all the bedding lol"</blockquote>



I had to get new towels since they still smelled like his soap.




Scent is a powerful memory trigger. Eliminate what you can.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50791 posts
23rd Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Love♥:</b>" Thats a good idea! "</blockquote>




I have my new "single girl sheets" they're hot pink lol and mine not "ours". Feels good.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
23rd Jun '13

Fucked a man with a bigger dick lmao. My x left me 2 weeks ago and moved right in with the woman he cheated on me with the last 2 months. i know i sound whorish but my x was the only man i had ever slept with or kissed. He is overweight with maybe a 5 inch dick i never knew anything was wrong with him i just thought it was me lol. The guy i slept with or sleeping with rather is slim college grad and such a wonderful guy. Makes me feel beautiful that my Jr.high crush waited all this time to get a chance to sleep with me lol

user banned 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4666 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" Fucked a man with a bigger dick lmao. My x left me 2 weeks ago and moved right in with the woman he cheated ... [snip!] ... such a wonderful guy. Makes me feel beautiful that my Jr.high crush waited all this time to get a chance to sleep with me lol"


Well it may you happy and helped you get over him so thats a good thing. It doesnt make you a whore.

Housewife & Co 1 child; Washington, District of Columbia 600 posts
23rd Jun '13

You could work out? Working out is a great way to spend free time

snglemama 4 kids; Georgia 11978 posts
23rd Jun '13
Quoting You and me + 3:" What are some things you guys have done to preoccupy your time to get over breakups? Ive clean the ... [snip!] ... and i still find myself in my free time crying and my mind wondering. Anything else i can do to preoccupy my time and mind?"


Working out, yoga.... nothing like looking better and feeling better after a break up

Bay'sMommy♥ Due March 3; 1 child; Texas 2321 posts
23rd Jun '13

I'm trying to get over a break up too.... I would say go get your hair & nails done..pamper yourself alittle.