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Sex with your husband Robin Wyatt Miamisburg, Ohio 123 posts
24th Jun '13

Add name for a topic I know didn't know what else to call it lol. Before I say anything I want to say that I am a very big Christian so please do not bass me on this, I do not care what anyone else views are and anyone is welcome to comment, However if you disagree with my views those to not post thank you. Like I said I am a Christian and I am married so in my eyes I'm totally aloud to have sex pretty much whenever we want lol. I am not on birth control because I hate it honestly and condoms take away intimacy (in mine and my husbands eyes). My family doesn't want me to get pregnant again and I agree right now is not the right time but I also believe that if God wants it to happen, things will work out. Anyway my family have actually told me to not have sex with my husband, so tell me what you guys think. Would you stop making love to your SO? I'm not going to listen to my family I am sex is a part a life and not only am I an adult I'm married so its pretty much stupid to think I'm not going to have sex with my husband but I'd like other opinions.

user banned 33 kids; British Columbia 2986 posts
24th Jun '13

No i wouldn't stop. What about the family planning method? Pulling out or spermicide? At least lowering the chances.

user banned Due September 18; 1 child; California 21617 posts
24th Jun '13

Do whatever you want. You're an adult, your family needs to mind their own business.

Amber ♡ Due August 13; 1 child; Kansas 17681 posts
24th Jun '13

I'd tell my family to screw off and mind their own business if they told me to stop having sex with my husband.



For BC, why don't you use NFP/pull out method?

Robin Wyatt Miamisburg, Ohio 123 posts
24th Jun '13

We are doing natural family planning and we have condom for just encase for the the tmi

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50677 posts
24th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robin Wyatt:</b>" Add name for a topic I know didn't know what else to call it lol. Before I say anything I want to say ... [snip!] ... an adult I'm married so its pretty much stupid to think I'm not going to have sex with my husband but I'd like other opinions."</blockquote>




Well part of having sex is doing it responsibly. Have sex by all means but keep up with the NFP.

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
24th Jun '13

I would keep having sex with him. But I would also being taking other preventative measures to ensure a pregnancy wouldn't happen if it really isn't a good time for it, not just in the opinion of my family.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15191 posts
24th Jun '13

Why does your family not want you having any more children?

Robin Wyatt Miamisburg, Ohio 123 posts
24th Jun '13

My family is very negative when it comes to marriage, sex and chirldren they think because all there lives have been screwed up mine will too. Also some of them think we are all screwed because the government and no one should want to bring any children in this world blah blah. I love them but they are kind of crazy my husbands family is really cool about it they just want to be happy. All they are worried is money which is a normal thing to worry about. We have two kids already and want two more, however now adays lots of people think that's crazy.

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, Oklahoma 5335 posts
24th Jun '13

I don't think its any of your families business, nor do they have any say what happens inside your bedroom with your husband. I think its totally out of line to even tell you that. The only people that I'd listen to if they told me not to engage in any sexual activity is a doctor.

The Time Police TTC since Apr 2014; 1 angel baby; Cold Lake, AB, Canada 33368 posts
24th Jun '13

Well, a huge part of being an adult is being responsible for your actions. If right now really isn't a good time for another, than you really should be preventing it.




On that note, I would tell my family to mind their own business.

Cassandra Lee Due October 23; Australia 21 posts
24th Jun '13

Swallow...?

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15191 posts
24th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Robin Wyatt:</b>" My family is very negative when it comes to marriage, sex and chirldren they think because all there ... [snip!] ... a normal thing to worry about. We have two kids already and want two more, however now adays lots of people think that's crazy."</blockquote>




Can you afford any more kids right now?

Simply, Mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Upland, 11670 posts
24th Jun '13

I would never stop sex with my DH but I wouldnt do so unprotected if it meant having a baby at bad time financially

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50677 posts
24th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cassandra Lee:</b>" Swallow...?"</blockquote>




Homg :D