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~The Lunar Flower~ Due January 13; 1 child; Alabama 6738 posts
24th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TheyCallMeMOMMY♥:</b>" I think she has to present her case to Mx and CA. I have a friend here whose husband waited to get renewed, ... [snip!] ... and has to be a resident of Mx for 10yrs before returning to the states. Its definatly not something she should be waiting on."</blockquote>



Oh wow. I hope she does get it fixed soon. I can't imagine how hard that's been for his wife :(

TheyCallMeMOMMY♥ 3 kids; Albuquerque, New Mexico 6800 posts
24th Jun '13
Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting TheyCallMeMOMMY♥:</b>" I think she has to present her ... [snip!] ... on."</blockquote> Oh wow. I hope she does get it fixed soon. I can't imagine how hard that's been for his wife :("

Its not, she moved on as soon as he left. They are still legally married but she has a new man and new baby with him. Its a train wreck.

~The Lunar Flower~ Due January 13; 1 child; Alabama 6738 posts
24th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TheyCallMeMOMMY♥:</b>" Its not, she moved on as soon as he left. They are still legally married but she has a new man and new baby with him. Its a train wreck."</blockquote>



Oh wow. Sounds like it. I'd hate to be in that situation

TheyCallMeMOMMY♥ 3 kids; Albuquerque, New Mexico 6800 posts
24th Jun '13
Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting TheyCallMeMOMMY♥:</b>" Its not, she moved on as soon ... [snip!] ... new man and new baby with him. Its a train wreck."</blockquote> Oh wow. Sounds like it. I'd hate to be in that situation"

Me too!! But its her life, I just sit back and watch.

orchidlovingmama 2 kids; Santa Rosa, California 1733 posts
24th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rebekah Garden x3:</b>" She should take him to court for paternity and make him get on the birth certificate."</blockquote>




Agreed!!!!! And this part is not pertaining to the above post, but its my personal opinion that if you're here on A visa and you know you don't have citezenship you should probably not be having sex without protection, getting pregnant and putting yourself and child in this situation. So to me...she made her bed.

Deleted ♡ 16 kids; North Carolina 87 posts
27th Jun '13

When she gets what she needs fixed you tell her to call his CO. His CO will take care of him ( ex military wife ). He has to by the military help with the baby. The baby would have free health care. The military does not play around about that kind of stuff.

~The Lunar Flower~ Due January 13; 1 child; Alabama 6738 posts
27th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brittany ♡:</b>" When she gets what she needs fixed you tell her to call his CO. His CO will take care of him ( ex military ... [snip!] ... military help with the baby. The baby would have free health care. The military does not play around about that kind of stuff."</blockquote>




That's all she wanted was good healthcare for their daughter. He's refused to do it so far because he knows he'll be made to pay more than what he's paying in CS. He was also still married when he got her pregnant so he said that would be an issue as well.

Deleted ♡ 16 kids; North Carolina 87 posts
27th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Brittany ♡:</b>" When she gets what she needs fixed you ... [snip!] ... more than what he's paying in CS. He was also still married when he got her pregnant so he said that would be an issue as well."</blockquote>



No matter what if she has prof he is the dad of that child he would have to put his child on his medical. He would get into trouble if he does not help the child. Make sure she has prof he is the dad and all she needs is call the CO. She will have to ride on top of them but it will happen. He is an ass if he is still married and has a baby with your friend. He is nothing but a little boy.

~The Lunar Flower~ Due January 13; 1 child; Alabama 6738 posts
27th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brittany ♡:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... them but it will happen. He is an ass if he is still married and has a baby with your friend. He is nothing but a little boy."</blockquote>



He was in the middle of a separation & filing for divorce but he is a complete deadbeat. He refused to sign the BC but she has pictures of him with the baby in the hospital & after she gets her visa renewed she's going to take him to court to get a paternity test done so she can receive regular child support & Galilea can get on his medical insurance. He lied to her saying he'd get kicked out of the military & lose his job if she told his CO anything. He's such an a*****e.

Deleted ♡ 16 kids; North Carolina 87 posts
27th Jun '13

Ha he would not get kicked out he would just get the shit for it. He i a baby his self. Wow. Sounds like she knows what's she is doing. If you need any more help I sure can help you the best I can.