I have been with my husband for 8 years and the whole time we have been together he has been abusing me. Ive kept this to myself all these years up until last month I told my family. I left him after one night we got arguing and he hit me in my face and pushed me off the bed. He also said some really hurtful things to me. I was doing really good but he was calling me non stop and kept stopping by the house. The only reason I took him back now is because my dad told me that I should give him another chance and said he believed he could really change. He did change for a week but that was it. Im tired of the fighting and tired of being hurt but he wont leave and my dad is acting like I shouldn't break up with him. Im just so tired and stressed out and on top of that my mom has been stressing me.
If your dad is so fond of him then he should live with him. You shouldn't have to be abused just because your dad doesn't want you to leave. You should leave, and I wouldn't even consider getting back together with him until he has completed anger management and goes to therapy.
I am sorry your in this situation, you really need to get out and ignore what your dad has to say. I cannot believe a father would want his daughter to be with someone abusive, my dad would be ready to kill him.
What is WRONG with your Dad? That's terrible. :( Don't listen to your Dad, seriously. Tell him YOU know what is best for you and that he should keep his opinion to himself. I can't believe a parent would support their daughter in staying in an abusive relationship... SMH.
Quoting TmA's mommy:" I am sorry your in this situation, you really need to get out and ignore what your dad has to say. I ... [snip!] ... has to say. I cannot believe a father would want his daughter to be with someone abusive, my dad would be ready to kill him."