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VENT.....How would you ladies feel in my situation Wendy Markel Due November 19; Michigan 92 posts
26th Jun '13

So the father to my son has done some terrible thing's in our relationship that i should have never tolerated but ended up taking him back. When i first found out i was preggo back in march we were broke up but decided to get back together and work things out because i was preggo and everything seemed fine for the longest, but then one day out of the blue in june i long onto facebook and go to look at his page and see this girl named sandy had posted on his wall (Congrats baby daddy we did it) and he comments i love you baby mama...smh...i was floored and i could not believe what i was seeing and had no idea he was being unfaithful and possibly had another women knocked up for that matter. I messaged him on facebook asking if it was true and said if it was true i could never forgive him for cheating on me while being preggo and knocking someone else up and he responds whatever so i tried calling him and he would not answer his phone so i let it go we were done as he betrayed me in the worse way and then ignored me. After that I decided 2 leave and go visit my friend for a few days because i was so hurt and distraught and i knew it could not be good on the baby being as stressed as i was.By the 4th day of visiting my friend he finally starts messaging me again telling me how sorry he was and that it was not his baby but a guy named mikes that she was in a relationship with the whole time he was sleeping with her....long story short i went through my entire pregnancy alone and decided to take him back 3 weeks b4 i was induced it was sometime in late october of last year i took him back...dumb i know but i wanted to work things out for my son. Everything has been ok up until this past monday until we had got into an argument and he packed and left. i long onto facebook the next day and see he added the sandy girl back onto his facebook and she liked a photo of my son that i had tagged him in...i was livid so i called him and asked him how he could disrespect me and his son like that by adding her onto his page...smh....it hurts and i feel like the whole sandy situation is being rubbed into my face all over again. I figured we would end up getting back together after a few days but after seeing that i doubt it...besides i know i deserve better. Am'i wrong for being pissed about him adding her as a friend on facebook because he thinks i'm crazy and that it should not bother me.

Kiki's Mommy Due November 10; 1 child; Montana 3554 posts
26th Jun '13

I would dump his ass and walk away. You do deserve better. No you have every right to be upset. I doubt he will change. You need to move on.

user banned 21 kids; North Dakota 3800 posts
26th Jun '13

No, but you're wrong for expecting that from him when he's proved to you time and time again he's a POS. Get rid of him for good and be happy.

Iyahna :^P Temecula, California 11382 posts
26th Jun '13

sorry he did that to you.He is such a heartless a*****e.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
26th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kiki's Mommy:</b>" I would dump his ass and walk away. You do deserve better. No you have every right to be upset. I doubt he will change. You need to move on."</blockquote>




This. Duck him.

Wendy Markel Due November 19; Michigan 92 posts
26th Jun '13
Quoting *Mayhem*:" No, but you're wrong for expecting that from him when he's proved to you time and time again he's a POS. Get rid of him for good and be happy."


Wrong for expecting what from him??? And yes i finally see he is never gunna change.

Sugarhiccup LLC 5 kids; Lahaina, Hawaii 2825 posts
26th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kiki's Mommy:</b>" I would dump his ass and walk away. You do deserve better. No you have every right to be upset. I doubt he will change. You need to move on."</blockquote>




:!:

user banned 21 kids; North Dakota 3800 posts
26th Jun '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kiki's Mommy:</b>" I would dump his ass and walk away. You do ... [snip!] ... No you have every right to be upset. I doubt he will change. You need to move on."</blockquote> This. Duck him."


Yes...quack him right to the curb. LOL Sorry I have ducks...it was funny to me. *Ducks out, no pun intended*

♥ Mrs. S ♥ Due September 20; 2 kids; Venezuela 12975 posts
status 26th Jun '13

Yuck! You deserve so much better. Taking him back time after time just makes him think that he can do whatever he wants and you'll still take him back. Do yourself and your son a favor and walk away.
THERE ARE MEN OUT THERE THAT WILL TREAT YOU 1000% BETTER!! (I'm not yelling, just want to make sure you saw that lol)
Focus on yourself and your son. When you are ready to date again, don't settle for just anything.

user banned 21 kids; North Dakota 3800 posts
26th Jun '13
Quoting Wendy Markel:" Wrong for expecting what from him??? And yes i finally see he is never gunna change."


Expecting him to be a decent SO...

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
26th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Mayhem*:</b>" Yes...quack him right to the curb. LOL Sorry I have ducks...it was funny to me. *Ducks out, no pun intended*"</blockquote>




Lmao. I tucking hate this tablet. Lol.

Wendy Markel Due November 19; Michigan 92 posts
26th Jun '13

i'm so hurt but at least a blessing came from it all.....my beautiful son



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user banned 21 kids; North Dakota 3800 posts
26th Jun '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Mayhem*:</b>" Yes...quack him right to the curb. LOL Sorry ... [snip!] ... I have ducks...it was funny to me. *Ducks out, no pun intended*"</blockquote> Lmao. I tucking hate this tablet. Lol."


Hahaha ;) Happens to me ALL the time.

Jax 3 kids; Sydney, NS, Australia 2888 posts
26th Jun '13
Quoting *Mayhem*:" Yes...quack him right to the curb. LOL Sorry I have ducks...it was funny to me. *Ducks out, no pun intended*"


This made me giggle :)
OP you need to get rid of him. Its no good having him around you, or your son.
Kick his ass out, and dont look back. You deserve so much better

Wendy Markel Due November 19; Michigan 92 posts
26th Jun '13
Quoting ♥ Mrs. S ♥:" Yuck! You deserve so much better. Taking him back time after time just makes him think that he can do ... [snip!] ... make sure you saw that lol) Focus on yourself and your son. When you are ready to date again, don't settle for just anything. "


i know i do...smh...it's just hard when a child is involved...funny thing is that when i called him and said something about him re-adding that girl 2 him facebook he told me he would remove her from his friends list but instead deactivated his account and then reactivated it today and then i saw she was still on his friends and said something again 2 him about and what does he do again....deactivate his account....i'm so over this and the games....i'm moving on this time