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sara- 1 child; British Columbia 455 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting TheNuge:" <blockquote><b>Quoting sara-:</b>" well of course you are right. But hey, if we were ... [snip!] ... a kid almost ready for school would certainly have me working my ass off at whatever job to get ahead and better HER life."


Okay, but it completely depends on the cost of living in your state.... i am assuming you are in the USA

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting sara-:" well of course you are right. But hey, if we were struggling and having a hard time financially, i would ... [snip!] ... im going to go crazy around here..... so yeah, im getting a job, not because i NEED one..... but because i do honestly want one"


If you're making reasonable attempt to attain a job in your field, even if it means starting at the bottom where you may not want to be, then I dont see why your husband is resenting you.
I do think its best for your marriage for you two to sit down and go over a plan.

Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting TheNuge:" <blockquote><b>Quoting sara-:</b>" well of course you are right. But hey, if we were ... [snip!] ... a kid almost ready for school would certainly have me working my ass off at whatever job to get ahead and better HER life."


depends on the cost of living where she is.

user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
29th Jun '13

BC is NOT a cheap place to live, at all!

sara- 1 child; British Columbia 455 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" BC is NOT a cheap place to live, at all!"


Yeah, we just moved from vancouver........ Apparently one of the most expensive places to live in north america. hah..... Somewhat sad since i lived all my 25 years there. But clearly made made sense

sara- 1 child; British Columbia 455 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting A Beautiful Disaster:" If you're making reasonable attempt to attain a job in your field, even if it means starting at the ... [snip!] ... dont see why your husband is resenting you. I do think its best for your marriage for you two to sit down and go over a plan. "


Also, I must say, you are very wise :)