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Too impatient, when would you? Mrs. Feliz. 2 kids; New Jersey 9994 posts
29th Jun '13

Test? I'm on CD 15. I ovulate today unless i ovulated early. We have been BD 24, 25, 27 & today. Which day would you test? I never wait til AF is due. I test ahead of time.. Right now is TOO early obviously. Just was seeing when you ladies would test :)

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
29th Jun '13

The earliest I'd test is 7-10 DPO. So at least a week from today.

SherryandMatt Due February 15; 1 child; 6 angel babies; Arizona 3879 posts
29th Jun '13

wait a minute.. you are trying to move, without jobs or a place of your own to live and TTC?? yikes that's a lot! And it will be harder to get a job pregnant. Oh boy you are going to have your hands full... no wonder you were questioning assistance. GL... I got my positive at 11dpo

Mrs. Feliz. 2 kids; New Jersey 9994 posts
29th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Crystal

Mrs. Feliz. 2 kids; New Jersey 9994 posts
29th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting SherryandMatt:</b>" wait a minute.. you are trying to move, without jobs or a place of your own to live and TTC?? yikes that's ... [snip!] ... Oh boy you are going to have your hands full... no wonder you were questioning assistance. GL... I got my positive at 11dpo"</blockquote>




We're not on assistance, first of all. Secondly I said we moved in with my parents due to my brother being disabled and my mother is disabled too. My cousin moved in with us so that he could help since he didn't have a place to go & we could move out. dH & I both work, we are looking for two other jobs if we move out of state. Please do not judge until you know my full story.

user banned 21 kids; North Dakota 3800 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting The Feliz Family :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting SherryandMatt:</b>" wait a minute.. you are trying to move, ... [snip!] ... dH & I both work, we are looking for two other jobs if we move out of state. Please do not judge until you know my full story."


I don't think she judged as much as pointed out how stupid it was but hey...good luck with that. And you did say in your other post you guys would probably need some assistance, did you not?

user banned Due March 16; 18 kids; Springfield, Georgia 8473 posts
29th Jun '13

I'd wait until at least 7dpo but that's still kind of early.

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
29th Jun '13

Idk how smart it would be to TTC and move to a place where you might not be able to find stable work and such. Moving like that is already tough. Trust me I've done it 8 times. Every time we moved for work and work ended up not being good enough. I couldn't imagine doing it with kids and being pregnant. I was pregnant this last nice from SC to NJ and I had never been more scared. What if it all doesn't go smoothly?

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting Crystal
Mrs. Feliz. 2 kids; New Jersey 9994 posts
29th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Mayhem*:</b>" I don't think she judged as much as pointed out how stupid it was but hey...good luck with that. And you did say in your other post you guys would probably need some assistance, did you not?"</blockquote>
With daycare, yes. I have daycare where I am right now. My mother watches her. Her disability is churg Strauss vasculitis (sp) she she can still care for my daughter (willingly) I never push my child onto my mother if her disease flares up. Also I mentioned I'm not on assistance now. As in (food stamps, cash assistance) I work so does DH. Moving out of state we obv can't take our jobs, he can transfer I can't..

Mrs. Feliz. 2 kids; New Jersey 9994 posts
29th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting J + A = B *TKO*:</b>" Idk how smart it would be to TTC and move to a place where you might not be able to find stable work ... [snip!] ... pregnant. I was pregnant this last nice from SC to NJ and I had never been more scared. What if it all doesn't go smoothly?"</blockquote>



That's my issue, I'm nervous because he can transfer his job and I can't transfer mine. We're saving what money we can, and paying off our bills we have now. I just am worried about work myself.

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
29th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Feliz Family :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting J + A = B *TKO*:</b>" Idk how smart it would be to TTC and move ... [snip!] ... can't transfer mine. We're saving what money we can, and paying off our bills we have now. I just am worried about work myself."</blockquote>




I'm totally supportive of you moving. It can be done like I said 6 out of those 8 times I've moved jobs weren't already lined up. We just knew the market was better in those states. But TTC while doing all that seems too uncertain and too stressful. Maybe just out it on hold a few months while you get what you need to done and have more of a certainty?

Mrs. Feliz. 2 kids; New Jersey 9994 posts
29th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting J + A = B *TKO*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Feliz Family :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... and too stressful. Maybe just out it on hold a few months while you get what you need to done and have more of a certainty?"</blockquote>
Thank you :) & yes we decided last minute if I'm not pregnant this month, than we are going to get birth control and wait until we are settled into our new home. I wish I could transfer my job, it would make it so much easier. Of course life isn't easy :) I appreciate your support.

Mrs. Feliz. 2 kids; New Jersey 9994 posts
29th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Severus Snape:</b>" :!::!: Agreed. I personally would want to wait until 9dpo to test to lower the chance of false negatives."</blockquote>



Thank you, waiting is the hard part. Especially when you've had baby fever for a good 6 months now. Yikes.