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Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 103128 posts
29th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A+H's mommy {TKO}:</b>" Can you get your tubes tied at 19?? "</blockquote>




Nope especially with no kids

applelove 1 child; auburn, CA, United States 6529 posts
29th Jun '13

I am not ashamed of the one that I had at all. I made the best choice I could. I did however make sure that I never had to make that choice again.

*KatteyBug* Due November 18; 1 child; Hazel Green, AL, United States 1619 posts
29th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-lily:</b>" Birth control fails. Have you not tried using your brain? OP, do what is best for YOU and not for anyone else. "</blockquote>




I wasn't trying to be rude to her I was just trying to see if she exhausted all her options to stop pregnancy in the first place.

Allissa Specht 35 kids; Essexville, Michigan 5426 posts
29th Jun '13

If you don't want kids, get something done. Use birth control, get an IUD. I just find this post a bit disturbing because there are so many women who would want to have a child and can never get pregnant

*Berrrr Due November 19; 1 child; Ohio 2724 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting applelove:" I am not ashamed of the one that I had at all. I made the best choice I could. I did however make sure that I never had to make that choice again. "


This is me also.



OP, you really should have posted this in Abortion Survivors.

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting Allissa Specht:" If you don't want kids, get something done. Use birth control, get an IUD. I just find this post a bit ... [snip!] ... just find this post a bit disturbing because there are so many women who would want to have a child and can never get pregnant"


Good thing women are not incubators for couples who cannot get pregnant.

S & S *20weeks* Due December 29 (boy); 16 kids; Larouche, Quebec 1123 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting Ravey Candyass:" So get some birth control or close your legs"


That last comment is really stupid. Sex is a primitive and natural part of life :roll: I'd like to see you try to do that when you're done having kids.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
29th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *KatteyBug*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kimber-lily:</b>" Birth control fails. Have you not tried ... [snip!] ... wasn't trying to be rude to her I was just trying to see if she exhausted all her options to stop pregnancy in the first place."</blockquote>




She got pregnant 4 yrs ago, it's not like she's getting knocked up every cycle. Honestly though, if she was...

♥garrett&adalyn 2 kids; Texas 10762 posts
29th Jun '13

Obviously if it keeps happening and you don't want it to, you should find a better method of birth control. I've never had one but I'm sure abortions aren't the cheapest thing to just go out and have done either.

~~My Pet Wussy~~ 3 kids; USA 23722 posts
29th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Allissa Specht:</b>" If you don't want kids, get something done. Use birth control, get an IUD. I just find this post a bit ... [snip!] ... just find this post a bit disturbing because there are so many women who would want to have a child and can never get pregnant"</blockquote>



How is one woman's infertility related to another woman's fertility?

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting Allissa Specht:" If you don't want kids, get something done. Use birth control, get an IUD. I just find this post a bit ... [snip!] ... just find this post a bit disturbing because there are so many women who would want to have a child and can never get pregnant"

There's so many people that don't want children, and woman just keep having them. Have you considered keeping your legs closed? You're upsetting people that don't want children.

S & S *20weeks* Due December 29 (boy); 16 kids; Larouche, Quebec 1123 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting Allissa Specht:" If you don't want kids, get something done. Use birth control, get an IUD. I just find this post a bit ... [snip!] ... just find this post a bit disturbing because there are so many women who would want to have a child and can never get pregnant"


That's what adoption's for, or surrogates. I can understand where you're coming from, but it's her body and she can't be forced to carry a baby she doesn't want. If I was raped I would make the same decision.

Aria Dawn's mommy 33 kids; Texas 1864 posts
29th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Allissa Specht:</b>" If you don't want kids, get something done. Use birth control, get an IUD. I just find this post a bit ... [snip!] ... just find this post a bit disturbing because there are so many women who would want to have a child and can never get pregnant"</blockquote>




So? It's her body. And you can't get an iud with no children. Glad you made a choice you're comfortable with,op. I'd Definitely use protection if you don't want to get pregnant again. I'm not against abortion, but I am against the use of it for the purposes of BC.

IOnlyMakeBoys (B.B.M) 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Texas 4754 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting A+H's mommy {TKO}:" Can you get your tubes tied at 19?? "


Not in my state you have to be over a certain age I think it is 25 and have had two kids and some states not all ask for your husbands consent to have it done which I think is stupid I wanted my tubes tied after my first and they said I couldn't because I didn't meet any of the criteria.

MunchkinWrangler 4 kids; Rīga, Latvia 46778 posts
29th Jun '13

If you don't want to give birth or mother a child than why aren't you doing a better job of preventing it?



Seems to me that abortion is your means of birth control.
That's pretty ridiculous.