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losing a baby skylair and noah's mommy 35 kids; Sioux Falls, South Dakota 470 posts
status 29th Jun '13

I just lost my baby this month and i am having a really hard time dealing with it. I was wandring if there was any advice you ladies could give me to help me cope.

BlackVelvet 1 child; 1 angel baby; Aurora, Illinois 4382 posts
29th Jun '13

Sorry for your lost...



I lost an Angel baby almost 10 years ago.



Its hard. Just take it 1 day at a time. Have a support system. Seek counseling (If needed). Sometimes talking to other mommahs who can understand what your going thru can help.

skylair and noah's mommy 35 kids; Sioux Falls, South Dakota 470 posts
status 29th Jun '13
Quoting BlackVelvet:" Sorry for your lost... I lost an Angel baby almost 10 years ago. Its hard. Just take it 1 day at a ... [snip!] ... system. Seek counseling (If needed). Sometimes talking to other mommahs who can understand what your going thru can help."

Sorry for your loss
thank you and no one in my family knows what to say, this is the 2nd time for me. I think its harder when knowing in my family knows what to say or how to help me.

BlackVelvet 1 child; 1 angel baby; Aurora, Illinois 4382 posts
29th Jun '13
Quoting skylair and noah's mommy:" Sorry for your loss thank you and no one in my family knows what to say, this is the 2nd time for me. I think its harder when knowing in my family knows what to say or how to help me. "


I dont think anyone knows really what to say.. Just remember your not alone.



Losing a baby in pregnancy or death in general is scary to alot of people.




When i lost my baby i was 17, in high school. She died at 24weeks pregnancy.

mom2andrew&carter 18 kids; Leesburg, Florida 2159 posts
29th Jun '13

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost a baby a year and half ago and it still hurts to this day. Theres not much anyone can really say about to make you feel better. you will never forget that baby but it will get easier as time goes on.

skylair and noah's mommy 35 kids; Sioux Falls, South Dakota 470 posts
status 29th Jun '13
Quoting BlackVelvet:" I dont think anyone knows really what to say.. Just remember your not alone. Losing a baby in pregnancy ... [snip!] ... or death in general is scary to alot of people. When i lost my baby i was 17, in high school. She died at 24weeks pregnancy."

I am sorry, yes it is very scary and that had to be very scary for you.

skylair and noah's mommy 35 kids; Sioux Falls, South Dakota 470 posts
status 29th Jun '13
Quoting mom2andrew&carter:" I am so sorry for your loss. I lost a baby a year and half ago and it still hurts to this day. Theres ... [snip!] ... anyone can really say about to make you feel better. you will never forget that baby but it will get easier as time goes on."


Thank you, that is true I still think about the baby I lost 4 years ago and I will never forget about this one.

Kells. 18 kids; Fucking, Austria 17622 posts
30th Jun '13

You just sort of have to go one day at a time.Eventually, just time will help. I hope. Sorry for your loss.