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Stupid f**king BD whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
30th Jun '13

He's just being a real a*****e because he still loves me or now hates me or what the f**k ever. Anyway, we're sitting down and writing out a parenting plan tomorrow.



How do you sit and have a rational discussion with your ex and not punch them in the face?

Mommy to 3 boys & 1 girl 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Sidney, Ohio 7758 posts
30th Jun '13

You think about your kids and how it would effect them. I had to do the same thing with my ex but I was more upset then mad.

Sophia's Mommy♥ 1 child; Hollywood, Florida 10160 posts
30th Jun '13

I couldn't do it.. He'd be so dumb throughout the whole thing and most likely not comply anyway.

whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
30th Jun '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" I couldn't do it.. He'd be so dumb throughout the whole thing and most likely not comply anyway."</blockquote>




That's what I'm worried about. I was planning on going through the court but if we can do it civilly and not have to take the court mandated parenting classes that cost a lot of money it would be better

Mommy to 3 boys & 1 girl 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Sidney, Ohio 7758 posts
30th Jun '13
Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophia's Mommy♥:</b>" I couldn't do it.. He'd be so dumb ... [snip!] ... if we can do it civilly and not have to take the court mandated parenting classes that cost a lot of money it would be better"

I would take it to court if i were you. my ex and i had our parenting plan written up and then hnt and told somebody i know that he was planning on taking me to court to take my kids from me.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
30th Jun '13

Go to court. My ex and I cant sit face to face and talk. We loose it with each other.

Barbara Outten Due November 15; Waterville, Maine 480 posts
3rd Jul '13

The only way for me and BD to come to an agreement is through court unfortunately. He thinks civil co parenting means he makes the decisions, and i agree. WRONG. My son is not gonna grow up to be like him, I'm damned and determined to make sure of that! When i asked my BD to talk with me about custody arrangements he simply said "I want primary custody, I want the kid monday, tuesday, and wednesday, Ill bring him to you Thursday mornings, And you bring him back Monday mornings." I said okay, see ya in court then buddy. In Maine if he doesnt sign the Birth Certificate I get automatic full custody until he serves me court paperwork, and thats the way its gonna have to be. If you managed to find a way to deal with BD let me know, i have a feeling the next 18 years are gonna be misery.