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Robin Wyatt Miamisburg, Ohio 123 posts
2nd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" i want visitation to be supervised always or until he gets his shit together. the dhhr said i can have ... [snip!] ... dhhr said i can have cps sit in for a few visits but they will get involved with me too but i told her i have nothing to hide. "</blockquote>




Yea I think you know what you are doing id just keep building a case on just encase he tries to get visitation. Then you have prof to show to a judge why you want it supervised. I hope it gets better for you. I went through all did and it did get better.

Nichelle Collins Due December 31 (boy); 2 kids; California 812 posts
2nd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" is it possible to get supervised visitation? my x left me and his daughter for another woman after cheating ... [snip!] ... likes to have sex in public so it makes me think its true. so if he loses his cna for neglect or abuse will that help in court?"</blockquote>




Most you can do is request that she is not around whrn visitation is accoring. If judge aproves and he brings her around he will lose his visitation. If if you feel your child is truly in dangr or that her children are truly in danger rhen you need to call child protectuve services. Thats all you can do.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
2nd Jul '13
Quoting Nichelle Collins:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" is it possible to get supervised visitation? ... [snip!] ... truly in dangr or that her children are truly in danger rhen you need to call child protectuve services. Thats all you can do."


he says his legal residence is at his grandmas bc his mail is sent there and his stuff is there but he lives with his gf. idk how to prove it for sure. they have only been official to me anyways for 2 weeks. and he is already calling her sophies step mom

Robin Wyatt Miamisburg, Ohio 123 posts
2nd Jul '13

I can't help a whole lot as far as child support goes different states have different things but it just seemed like the other person was saying he didn't have to take care of his child unless the government made him.

Nichelle Collins Due December 31 (boy); 2 kids; California 812 posts
2nd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" he says his legal residence is at his grandmas bc his mail is sent there and his stuff is there but ... [snip!] ... to prove it for sure. they have only been official to me anyways for 2 weeks. and he is already calling her sophies step mom"</blockquote>




Dosnt matter. Call cps and give them all the info you have on her. All of your concerns and they will investigate it. If they find what you are sayibg is true they will do something about it. And as far as visitation talk to your lawer and they can tell you how to request that she not be around when he has visitation.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
2nd Jul '13
Quoting Robin Wyatt:" I can't help a whole lot as far as child support goes different states have different things but it just ... [snip!] ... but it just seemed like the other person was saying he didn't have to take care of his child unless the government made him."


well thats kind of true. he will owe for the welfare im going to recieve. he just says i need to get off my ass and get a job. i have been a stahm for 2 years no lisence bc i need glasses to pass the vision test at the dmv and im 19 weeks pregnant. if i work with welfare they will get me glasses help get my licence and after the baby is born i can get a job and actually drive there plus they have a forgiveness program to get you back in college if you flunk out.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
2nd Jul '13
Quoting Nichelle Collins:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" he says his legal residence is at his ... [snip!] ... And as far as visitation talk to your lawer and they can tell you how to request that she not be around when he has visitation."



i was a stahm for 2 years i have no lawyer

Nichelle Collins Due December 31 (boy); 2 kids; California 812 posts
2nd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" i was a stahm for 2 years i have no lawyer"</blockquote>




well you can call around and ask questions to lawyers in that field. There is someone that can help you get the answrs to your questions the right way.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
2nd Jul '13
Quoting Nichelle Collins:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" i was a stahm for 2 years i have ... [snip!] ... and ask questions to lawyers in that field. There is someone that can help you get the answrs to your questions the right way."

im hoping once court happens ill have glasses and my lisence. my mom is looking into a cheap car like around 500-1000 to just get me by until i get a job or go back to school. plus i stopped smoking. so im hoping along with working with welfare and all of their requirements and getting my life together it will look really good on me in court.

Nichelle Collins Due December 31 (boy); 2 kids; California 812 posts
2nd Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" im hoping once court happens ill have glasses and my lisence. my mom is looking into a cheap car like ... [snip!] ... with working with welfare and all of their requirements and getting my life together it will look really good on me in court. "</blockquote>




All that matters is that you are caring and providing for your child. Just make sure there is nothing he/his gf can try to use against you. As long as your doing what you need to do you should have no problems. Keep your head up and all will be fine :-)

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45129 posts
status 2nd Jul '13
Quoting Robin Wyatt:" <blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" If he has not been ordered to pay child ... [snip!] ... legal obligation to give you any money."</blockquote> I'm sorry but how is he not obligated to take care of his child?"


I said he was not legally obligated to give her any money.

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45129 posts
status 2nd Jul '13
Quoting Nichelle Collins:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" is it possible to get supervised visitation? ... [snip!] ... truly in dangr or that her children are truly in danger rhen you need to call child protectuve services. Thats all you can do."


Unless she can prove this woman is a danger to her child, the judge can't say that she can't be around the child.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
2nd Jul '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Unless she can prove this woman is a danger to her child, the judge can't say that she can't be around the child."

so i can get with a mentally unstable person who has threatened suicide and he has no say in if this man is around his daughter?

speaktruth2powr 2 kids; Ontario 45129 posts
status 2nd Jul '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" so i can get with a mentally unstable person who has threatened suicide and he has no say in if this man is around his daughter?"


Did she threaten to hurt your child during her suicide threat?

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
2nd Jul '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Did she threaten to hurt your child during her suicide threat?"


i think its irrelevant. this woman is new i have him recorded stating that he wants it in court papers that we cant bring a new gf or bf around until the 6 month mark which i completely agree on and he just plans on doing what he wants anyways. her 4 year old has autism and her 8 year old gets suspended from school on a weekly basis and she lets them beat the f**k out of each other. not only that but they fucked at work and got fired for it. and there is abuse allegations going on. i want my daughter to have no part in it