Quoting Mother of Dragons:" i havent involved myself at all. he tells me all this shit and when i change the subject to our daughter he gets pissed off. i was only involved in it while we were together. "
You have though.
Don't speak to him on the phone anymore. Tell him that if he wants to communicate with you through e-mail or letter only.
There....you are uninvolved.
Quoting Nichelle Collins:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" she cant get around my daughter until ... [snip!] ... no control at the moment. If you keep her away fron him without any proof against this woman that will be used against you."
i allow him to come to my home to see his daughter for as long as he wants. he only stays for an hour normally or shows up late. not only that but he has his address at his grandmas but stays with his gf. he does not have a stable home to bring her too anyways.
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" You have though. Don't speak to him on the phone anymore. Tell him that if he wants to communicate with you through e-mail or letter only. There....you are uninvolved."
basically what my mom did was tell him if he does not want to deal with me at all then he can call her while im at job prep classes for welfare and she will let him talk to our daughter. i also do not contact him unless he contacts me about sophie. the first few days of all this i was horrible called him alot etc. now im nice to him as much as possible i even made him dinner when he saw our daughter last time. I got into an argument with him today bc i told him if he wants to see sophie for the 4th of july he needed to let me know sat. he told me the day we talked that he would no go unless his gf and boys were allowed too. i think its way to soon. she helped break up a home with him and knew i was pregnant. not only that but one day he wanted to stay at home with his daughter and she flipped the freak out. she is not interested in his children at all and i think more time needs to pass. but he calls me today and says he will be over at this time and blah blah blah. now i have his family trying to push mine out of all the plans which isnt fair since no one wanted to do crap till a couple days ago way after my family made plans. i dont care who comes but they need to come and not make any plans.