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Barbieʚϊɞ Florida 11401 posts
7th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 3sACrowd:</b>" :!: If you're so sick of her not taking your advice, then stop offering it. :idea:"</blockquote>




I DO TAKE IT BUT



right now I can't do all they are asking me

мɑkɑnɑni 1 angel baby; ~, FL, United States 65172 posts
11th Jul '13
Quoting Barbieʚϊɞ:" i cant have kids i was trying 2 adopt i am a god Mom if 4 girls and 1 boy so what the big deal"


Being a godmother doesn't mean anything.

мɑkɑnɑni 1 angel baby; ~, FL, United States 65172 posts
11th Jul '13
Quoting Barbieʚϊɞ:" how can i adopt singel u cant lol so it all feel back"


Single people can adopt.

Barbieʚϊɞ Florida 11401 posts
11th Jul '13
Quoting mαkαnαni:" Single people can adopt."


duh i now that why it all fail back

Barbieʚϊɞ Florida 11401 posts
11th Jul '13
Quoting mαkαnαni:" Being a godmother doesn't mean anything."


i <3 them like my own kids

Barbieʚϊɞ Florida 11401 posts
11th Jul '13
Quoting mαkαnαni:" Being a godmother doesn't mean anything."


I dont understand what your big deal is or any one big deal is

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56007 posts
status 11th Jul '13
Quoting Barbieʚϊɞ:" i <3 them like my own kids"


yeah but being a godmother is nothing like being a mother. You might love those kids, but loving them is easy.

Barbieʚϊɞ Florida 11401 posts
11th Jul '13
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" yeah but being a godmother is nothing like being a mother. You might love those kids, but loving them is easy."



i By them stuff like they were my own kid

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
11th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~Frodolicious~(B+M=R+?):</b>" I understand what you're saying, but what she's saying is that it's really not the same. "</blockquote>




Not in the least. Barbie, you don't have to wake up with them at all hours of the night, take care of them when they are sick, clean up puke and diarrhea.
It's just not the same. At the end of the day you can hand your godchild/ren back to the parents. You can't do that when it's your own child.

Barbieʚϊɞ Florida 11401 posts
11th Jul '13
Quoting CrushingGuts *TKO*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~Frodolicious~(B+M=R+?):</b>" I understand what you're saying, ... [snip!] ... the same. At the end of the day you can hand your godchild/ren back to the parents. You can't do that when it's your own child."


um yes i clean up puke and poop and i am with tehm a lot and they sleep at my house i babysit them all the tiem so i do all




next week i am sleep at 2 of there house since there mom going out of town

3sACrowd 3 kids; Alaska 3339 posts
11th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Barbieʚϊɞ:</b>" um yes i clean up puke and poop and i am with tehm a lot and they sleep at my house i babysit them ... [snip!] ... my house i babysit them all the tiem so i do all next week i am sleep at 2 of there house since there mom going out of town"</blockquote>



That is still not the same as being their parent. You are not responsible for them or raise them by yourself.

Barbieʚϊɞ Florida 11401 posts
12th Jul '13
Quoting 3sACrowd:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Barbieʚϊɞ:</b>" um yes i clean up puke and ... [snip!] ... That is still not the same as being their parent. You are not responsible for them or raise them by yourself."


if someting happens to there mom and dad yes i am

3sACrowd 3 kids; Alaska 3339 posts
12th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Barbieʚϊɞ:</b>" if someting happens to there mom and dad yes i am"</blockquote>




It doesn't work that way unless they've written in their will on front of a notary. And still, not the same thing right NOW.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56007 posts
status 12th Jul '13
Quoting Barbieʚϊɞ:" if someting happens to there mom and dad yes i am"



Being listed as a godparent does NOT mean that you will get the child if the parents die. Godparent is not a legal thing. It's just a religious thing

babysitting does not mean that you are ready to be a parent. It's not the same thing at all.



Ladee+Grant+Lilly 2 kids; Tallahassee, FL, United States 20265 posts
12th Jul '13
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" Being listed as a godparent does NOT mean that you will get the child if the parents die. Godparent ... [snip!] ... just a religious thing babysitting does not mean that you are ready to be a parent. It's not the same thing at all. "


This thread is still going? Dang lol...



But to agree with you, yeah I used to say the same thing about my baby brother before I had kids. Now I know why everyone always gave me that "STFU" look lol. It's a total different ballgame. Different emotions swirling around, different situations...somewhat similar in the actual nuts and bolts of childcare...but that's about it.