Im at hospice my mil is about to pass away I feel like dh family doesnt want me here but yet dh wants me here so I feel awkward and I feel panicked. Am I just over thinking this???? I also feel bad they have to see me pregnant since mil really wanted to meet this baby but she won't and I feel like everyone is thinking that... this is so tough ive never dealt with a death im just trying to be there for dh :'(
You need to be there for your husband if he wants you there. His family can suck it. You're married
<blockquote><b>Quoting Onalee's Mummy:</b>" You need to be there for your husband if he wants you there. His family can suck it. You're married"</blockquote>
My feelings :)
You're his wife. If you weren't there people would wonder. I assure you no one is thinking about you.
The best thing you can do is just be there for your MIL and your husband. Death sucks. I have yet to find anything to help make it better besides just being there and being supportive.
Be there. Definitely be there. it is possible that the feeling that you are getting from his family is just that they are wishing that she could have met your babe and it really has nothing with not wanting you there but wishing that the timing was different. They also may just be dealing with their own grief and don't know how to include you in that. Regardless, DH needs you, and I'm certain that your MIL would want you there, even if for no other reason than to know that her son has someone to comfort him. In this situation, they are really the only 2 that matter.