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deleted. tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29662 posts
7th Jul '13

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SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7869 posts
7th Jul '13

When you see her, let her know it's not appropriate for her to come over randomly and purposely when you're not there. Your DH should make it clear as well.



She sounds like she's trying something, honestly.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29662 posts
7th Jul '13

I am working again tomorrow, and he is off- I told him if she stops by again, he has to tell her that he's not comfortable with it.



Her husband works a few hours a way during the week and is only home usually on the weekends. I guess this is how she occupies herself? (Even though he was off wherever yesterday when she stopped by.)

3sACrowd 3 kids; Alaska 3391 posts
7th Jul '13

I would never allow a teacher to stop by at my house unless it was a planned meeting discussing my son and his education.

Subtle As A Hurricane 2 kids; Texas 4126 posts
7th Jul '13

She needs to know that what she is doing is inappropriate and, it needs to stop immediately.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29662 posts
7th Jul '13
Quoting 3sACrowd:" I would never allow a teacher to stop by at my house unless it was a planned meeting discussing my son and his education."


Former teacher- he finished preschool in May. However, I understand your point.

jo-jo 2 kids; ..., SA, Australia 2304 posts
7th Jul '13
Quoting 3sACrowd:" I would never allow a teacher to stop by at my house unless it was a planned meeting discussing my son and his education."


Exactly!!!
I wouldn't care if she lived directly next door, she is being un professional, and should keep her nose on her side of the fence!

3sACrowd 3 kids; Alaska 3391 posts
7th Jul '13
Quoting tinana+2:" Former teacher- he finished preschool in May. However, I understand your point."

That makes the situation worse then. If she is not teaching your child, she has no business coming over. I'd be ticked off.

ℐαzmчn 2 kids; Somerset, Kentucky 12712 posts
7th Jul '13
Quoting Subtle As A Hurricane:" She needs to know that what she is doing is inappropriate and, it needs to stop immediately."


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Cαtwomαn 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Gotham, DC, United States 12811 posts
7th Jul '13

You can borrow my gun and shovel.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29662 posts
7th Jul '13

Lol! Thanks for the responses.