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FB Stalking MamaTay[Kennedi] 1 child; Greenville, Texas 4171 posts
status 7th Jul '13

I'm curious if FB stalking has ever gotten you something useful? It doesn't matter who it is, or the reason... But has it maybe helped you?
I check up on SO's ex wife every once in awhile. From what her step mom and real dad say, and what SO has said is she is batshit... A long time ago, I asked her for her side because I wasn't wanting to believe she was that awful. She wouldn't tell me, but I gave her the chance.
Well, in my findings I have found out that her SO/BD (3rd kid, 3rd father) that he is a drug dealer, owns a decent looking pistol, and has been involved with a bit of crime since he was 18. And she has been to jail for DWI and ran.. But like I said, everyone says shes crazy and bipolar.
I do it also to keep an eye as to where she is in proximity to me. Luckily, a couple states away. I don't want crazy showing up at my door with a gun.
I also FB stalk other people out of curiosity. Old friends who I don't talk to, stuff like that. Also, my sister and I read hilarious stuff of of someones profile, she went to HS with the guy.
No judging, no bashing. Just curious.

Simply, Mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Upland, 11704 posts
7th Jul '13

nope.



idgaf about their lives to be honest.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15436 posts
status 7th Jul '13

Yeah, I don't stalk People. There's People I've looked up from High School and College but that was to add them and see how they were doing. In an interacting sort of way.

Ladee+Grant+Lilly 2 kids; Tallahassee, FL, United States 20287 posts
7th Jul '13

I don't stalk anymore. The people I need to keep up with, are on my Fb and it's not considered stalking. Anyone else...I just get my feelings hurt or get upset all over again about whatever situation happened. I don't have time for that mess lol. I block people so I don't get tempted to stalk either.

3sACrowd 3 kids; Alaska 3339 posts
7th Jul '13

Nope. Don't see a point. I worry about my own life.

Kimber-lily Due September 27 (girl); 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
7th Jul '13

I uhhh stalked someones FB to get their birth date..

MamaTay[Kennedi] 1 child; Greenville, Texas 4171 posts
status 7th Jul '13
Quoting Ladee+Grant+Lilly:" I don't stalk anymore. The people I need to keep up with, are on my Fb and it's not considered stalking. ... [snip!] ... about whatever situation happened. I don't have time for that mess lol. I block people so I don't get tempted to stalk either. "


I only do it to the 2/3 people I mentioned. Lol. And one of those, my sister and I just make private jokes about.
Her and I talk several hours a week, and we get a laugh.

Snow 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
7th Jul '13
Quoting Ladee+Grant+Lilly:" I don't stalk anymore. The people I need to keep up with, are on my Fb and it's not considered stalking. ... [snip!] ... about whatever situation happened. I don't have time for that mess lol. I block people so I don't get tempted to stalk either. "


This, all of this.

mamaofarunner 1 child; Kansas City, Kansas 1682 posts
7th Jul '13

Ive stalked exes for a while, we were friends anyways and even though i wouldnt double dip im just want to know. My first bf has yet to even go on a date and we broke up um 4 years ago. We were together for 3 years and i still worry. He still has a place in my heart. I worry that I damaged him some how and that he wont recover, he has certain issues that makes him hard to talk to people, so i try to be as supportive and be there for him when he isnt doing well.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
7th Jul '13

You honestly sound paranoid. Why are you determined to hate this woman that will have no effect on your life?



So what, she has 3 kids with 3 different men? Is it her fault these relationships didn't work like she planned?



If she's with someone who deals drugs, there's a good chance no one has taught her, her self worth, and that's sad. Everyone deserves someone who makes them feel special.

GrumpsMama 1 child; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 16073 posts
7th Jul '13

I just like to get on my neighbors facebook. haha. she's a f**king trainwreck.



The ones who do it to themselves... it's funny, I can't stop watching...

MamaTay[Kennedi] 1 child; Greenville, Texas 4171 posts
status 7th Jul '13
Quoting mamaofacrawla:" Ive stalked exes for a while, we were friends anyways and even though i wouldnt double dip im just want ... [snip!] ... issues that makes him hard to talk to people, so i try to be as supportive and be there for him when he isnt doing well. "


I had something like that. Then he met a girl and they got pregnant. Her and I met at 22 weeks. Both of us have girls. We had broken up 5 years before. And I thought I ruined him. Until her and I had a good talk and I learned of all the shit he talked about me, and that I was to blame for him getting into drugs and needing rehab 2.5 to 3 years after the break up. And all the hateful things him and his family said about me. I loved his family, and thought they weren't like that. We ended up have so much in common and wanted to hang out, but he thought I was going to wreck their relationship. Little did he know, he pushed her away all on his own. I had no reason to talk about him.
Her and I had our babies 2 weeks apart. And we're great friends.

Amber {Dylan's momma} 1 child; Lodi, Ohio 1974 posts
7th Jul '13

When I found out BD was liar abd a cheater, I snooped a bit. Now I dont care.

MamaTay[Kennedi] 1 child; Greenville, Texas 4171 posts
status 7th Jul '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" You honestly sound paranoid. Why are you determined to hate this woman that will have no effect on your ... [snip!] ... a good chance no one has taught her, her self worth, and that's sad. Everyone deserves someone who makes them feel special."


The sad thing is, I'm the only one who sticks up for her to her family. She will when it comes down to all the custody with SO, the grandparents, and her. I am paranoid. Not just about her though. Random horrible stuff. I do feel so bad for her sometimes. But yeah, she has cheated on all of her BD's. And generally isn't a nice person. I dislike her, but I don't hate her. I honestly think she'd be decent if she could grow up. And stay on medication.
But yeah, I am super paranoid, and always think in what ifs.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
7th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting MamaTay[Kennedi]:</b>" The sad thing is, I'm the only one who sticks up for her to her family. She will when it comes down ... [snip!] ... she'd be decent if she could grow up. And stay on medication. But yeah, I am super paranoid, and always think in what ifs."</blockquote>




You defend her? Yet talk all this shit about her? Judging her life doesn't prepare you for anything.