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user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
8th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rd.tko.:</b>" Agree."</blockquote>




Yeah just saw this kid is pregnant...wow



You can't admit you have the mentality of a 12 year old AND have 2 kids, girly. Pick one. Grow up and not use your aspergers to justify your immaturity or don't have kids.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
8th Jul '13
Quoting Pusherman _tko_:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" I said I had aspergers like 3 times ... [snip!] ... this stuff you have to act like a grown up. Don't make it a handicap and only be a big girl when it's convenient for you. :/"


oh no i dont consider it a handicap at all. I was just trying to explain why rejection and feelings are so hard for me to deal with

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
8th Jul '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" i edited it after the first 3 posts were up. you just didnt pay attention lol. i put some punctuation in as well. I also mentioned aspergers in other responses as well. "

No one goes back to read once they've formulated a response.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
8th Jul '13
Quoting Pusherman _tko_:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rd.tko.:</b>" Agree."</blockquote> Yeah just saw this ... [snip!] ... 12 year old AND have 2 kids, girly. Pick one. Grow up and not use your aspergers to justify your immaturity or don't have kids."


lol i breastfed my first for 17 months I keep a clean house do job training so after the baby I can be successful as a single mom. I do not drink or do drugs I am very responsible and grown up other wise. Its the social I have an issue with

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
8th Jul '13
Quoting Rd.tko.:" No one goes back to read once they've formulated a response."


well people were bitching lol

user banned 1 child; Germany 12377 posts
8th Jul '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" well people were bitching lol"

That's fine... I'm just saying it doesn't matter if you edited it to the people read it before that and responded.

user banned 2 kids; Silly, Belgium 6539 posts
8th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" lol i breastfed my first for 17 months I keep a clean house do job training so after the baby I can ... [snip!] ... as a single mom. I do not drink or do drugs I am very responsible and grown up other wise. Its the social I have an issue with"</blockquote>




OK awesome. I'm proud of you.



But you should still be up front about it with your lover. And in the future you don't have to pull the autism card for sympathy.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
8th Jul '13
Quoting Pusherman _tko_:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mother of Dragons:</b>" lol i breastfed my first for 17 months ... [snip!] ... you should still be up front about it with your lover. And in the future you don't have to pull the autism card for sympathy."

i did not pull it for sympathy its a part of who i am and why i react certain ways to certain circumstances. It was for understanding.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 104405 posts
8th Jul '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" You guys can be derogatory all you want. I know its jr.high shit. If any of you have children with autism ... [snip!] ... over that bc social awkwardness and not understanding other peoples feelings and severe fear of rejection is a huge part of it"


nothing you say makes sense.

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 17583 posts
status 8th Jul '13

Text him right now and ask him "Where do you want our relationship to go?" Then you will get an idea of what he thinks of you.



Did you know this guy before you got pregnant? Are you bringing him around your daughter?

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
8th Jul '13
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" Text him right now and ask him "Where do you want our relationship to go?" Then you will get an idea ... [snip!] ... an idea of what he thinks of you. Did you know this guy before you got pregnant? Are you bringing him around your daughter?"

oh hell no my mom watches her. And I had a huge crush on him 7-9th grade and his dad was my math teacher.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
8th Jul '13
Quoting JessieLeeAnne:" Text him right now and ask him "Where do you want our relationship to go?" Then you will get an idea ... [snip!] ... an idea of what he thinks of you. Did you know this guy before you got pregnant? Are you bringing him around your daughter?"


i sent him a facebook message. he isnt online and I can hide while he thinks about it lmao. its the best I can do lmao

Bad Things 1 child; Blacksburg, SC, United States 17583 posts
status 8th Jul '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" i sent him a facebook message. he isnt online and I can hide while he thinks about it lmao. its the best I can do lmao"


That's good, at least. Then you will see if he might be interested before you come all out with it.



I would try to really think if you want to continue the FWB things with him. In my experiences, those types of relationships only end up bad and someone getting hurt.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
9th Jul '13

well we had a long talk and it helped tons. He wants to stay fwb because he has to student teach in another city where he went to school and he is the type that would want stability b4 having a family and all that jazz. Plus my life is crazy right now and there are many things I need to get in order first as well. Im not sad or dispointed at all lol. I''m actually quite relieved. Now i can just be myself and enjoy the moment and not worry about things so much. He respects me more as a fwb then my x did in the total 6 years we were together. He said that I deserve someone who is ready to take care and love all 3 of us and never settle for less. He also called me beautiful and that he wanted to distract me in a bad time and show me that even if its not him that there are better men out there who respect women. I think its all great I need to learn not to fall so fast and grow up some and he still wants to have sex lmao. I think i will set up some ground rules though like no kissing hugging outside of sex and some other things he does just so its easier to keep things separated. his student teaching starts fairly soon so I dont have very much time anyways.

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
9th Jul '13
Quoting Mother of Dragons:" well we had a long talk and it helped tons. He wants to stay fwb because he has to student teach in another ... [snip!] ... just so its easier to keep things separated. his student teaching starts fairly soon so I dont have very much time anyways. "


Glad it all worked out for you then :)