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Ex is still trying to control my life grrrr Carol Allison Due August 8; 4 kids; 1 angel baby; United Kingdom 250 posts
9th Jul '13

I split up with my kids dad a few year ago & i'm now happily married to a lovely man who'd do anything for me.



Not long before hubby & I got married last year we decided to ttc but sadly had a m/c in December but my ex who I only have contact with because of the kids staying at his at the weekends turned round to me in front of the kids I don't know why you want another baby when you've got 3 already. Because of this they've turned round to me a few times & said mummy daddy doesn't want you to have another baby which i've replied calmly if he says anything just ignore him. When I was having af a few weeks ago you know how your tummy swells a bit he turned round to me & said your going to be fat like your mum. My dd said to me this morning mummy is there a baby in your tummy to which my reply was no & then she said mummy your getting fat but the best of it is i've put no weight on as I always stay around the same, i've always been really slim & could eat for England lol



What right has he got to say these things to the kids grrr but like I said to the kids this morning if dad says anything just ignore him but to myself I thought my god i can't wait until there old enough to go to his by themselves as I want nothing to do with him.



Now i'm furious with him but don't want to get into a blazing row with him either for the kids sake.



Any advice would me much appreciated

Faye's Mama 1 child; Springfield, MO, United States 4569 posts
9th Jul '13

Tell him (not in front of the kids of course) to kindly shut the f**k up and mind his own damn business.

Ricky&Emma's Mommy 2 kids; California 5023 posts
9th Jul '13
Quoting Faye's Mama-23 Weeks:" Tell him (not in front of the kids of course) to kindly shut the f**k up and mind his own damn business. "


this exactly!