So we live a good 2-6 hours away from family and we are new to the area so we don't know many people. When my husband and I talk about labor I know I want to do most of my labor at home but he wants to go to the hospital right away. We have a 3 year old that won't be able to go to the hospital with us and I have no idea what to do with him. I'm sure in the next 16-20 weeks I will make a good friend that can watch him until my in laws get here, but when do I start making a POA amd discussing it with everybody else?
I feel like I may be on the late train with this one. I know, at least I think I know, what I want I just haven't writtwn it out.
ETA: Also that's wothout traffic and if the weather allows usually the vine gets snowed in and it adds an extra 4-6 hours to their trip.