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Cast Your Vote:

    • Love it and do it all the time -- Votes: 7
    • Like it and do it once in a while -- Votes: 29
    • Tried it, not my thing, and only do it once in a blue moon -- Votes: 45
    • Don't like the idea of it, never tried it, and never will -- Votes: 21
killingbird 5evr 2 kids; 1 angel baby; North Carolina 10105 posts
9th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting StEvEnScOuNtRyGiRl:</b>" Ooohhh yes who's all on the high roads?? To many smurfing hormones in this joint. You may "gang" up on some to prove your points, but my opinions will always remain the same! So why bother???"</blockquote>




You're the one posting and back-pedaling. Don't get mad when you're called on it.

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
9th Jul '13
Quoting Princess Celestia [24]:" I like it when I'm drunk :lol:"


:!:

user banned Ohio 4193 posts
9th Jul '13

I didn't see an option that I would choose, but... my husband has been begging me to do it for as long as I can remember being with him. I was never comfortable with it until recently so now he is getting to work his way up to it :lol:

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, Oklahoma 5335 posts
9th Jul '13

Oh, and I've tried it once, didn't like it and it doesn't look like I will be getting any in the future, which is fine with me! lol

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
9th Jul '13
Quoting bia.:" Maybe she is a dirty little slut, why the hell do you guys care so much, what she has to say about HER sister? lmfao, get a f**king grip."


Because people slut shame and don't realize how bad it is, for all of us. They toss around words without thinking about them. It's bad for all women really. Often we don't realize it until we really think about it.

Pistol Annie☆ 2 kids; Houston, TX, United States 12634 posts
9th Jul '13

Honestly, the idea freaks me out so bad I don't think I could ever go there.

♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
9th Jul '13

well, uh...I wouldn't know how much anal my sister has in the first place. That's just weird, IMO.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
9th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:</b>" well, uh...I wouldn't know how much anal my sister has in the first place. That's just weird, IMO."</blockquote>



:P Yeah, I have no interest in my sister's sex life.

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 71781 posts
status 9th Jul '13
Quoting she nan igans:" Because people slut shame and don't realize how bad it is, for all of us. They toss around words without ... [snip!] ... words without thinking about them. It's bad for all women really. Often we don't realize it until we really think about it."


For all of us?

babyyychikitaaa88 Due September 11; 3 kids; Mount Airy, North Carolina 43 posts
9th Jul '13

Hell nooo. Thats exit only. Ive tried it. I have to be drunk as hell to do it again.

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
9th Jul '13
Quoting bia.:" For all of us?"


Women. In general. If we insult each other and stoop to slut shaming it helps to say it's okay. It validates the behavior, and continues the idea that our worth is based on sex. We either have too little, or too much, we are prudes or we are wh**es. All of it is assigning a woman's worth to her sexlife.



When women call each other sluts and wh**es it just makes it more okay when men do it too.

SaraDenise 2 kids; Durant, Oklahoma 827 posts
9th Jul '13

To answer the original question, I love LOVE love anal! It's a rare week if my SO and I don't do it at least 5 days of the week. It gets me off EVERY time. Great option if you are horny and on your period too. :lol::lol:

kr.r 1 child; Dallas, TX, United States 8735 posts
9th Jul '13

I love it, but unfortunately we rarely do it (that goes for sex in general too). :cry:

SaraDenise 2 kids; Durant, Oklahoma 827 posts
9th Jul '13
Quoting she nan igans:" Women. In general. If we insult each other and stoop to slut shaming it helps to say it's okay. It validates ... [snip!] ... a woman's worth to her sexlife. When women call each other sluts and wh**es it just makes it more okay when men do it too. "

I agree. This is a concept I've believed in since high school and not a lot of people understand it. It's not cool to call your friends "slut, skank, etc" as a joke either. By using those terms lightly like that it just makes guys more apt to use them. I also don't get why people would allow other people to call them derogatory names willingly...?

_______Nope_________ 23772 posts
9th Jul '13
Quoting SaraDenise:" I agree. This is a concept I've believed in since high school and not a lot of people understand it. ... [snip!] ... guys more apt to use them. I also don't get why people would allow other people to call them derogatory names willingly...?"


Yep. And let's face it, it's all connected to rape culture and women's place in society. WHY is it that women are sluts, which is BAD, but men are "studs, man-wh**es (which is generally at least neutral if not good)? Because men are not defined by their sex life in a negative way.



When women are considered sluts, it dehumanizes them. Anything that happens to them, anything you say about them, is okay since they're just sluts. You can rape a slut, it's okay, she isn't important. You can insult a slut, it's okay, she isn't worth anything. All of this because of CONSENSUAL sex that a woman chooses to have?



Women should not be defined by their sex lives. They are MORE than that, and by calling one another these names we basically say we are no more than the worth of whats between our legs.