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♥Mrs.Garcia 18 kids; Houston, Texas 13802 posts
9th Jul '13
Quoting mommy2noah&crystel:" for the first 6 months you get i think 85% of your weekly wage, after the 6 months is up it goes off ... [snip!] ... we get 166 bi weekly... i get about 230 a week... you have to make at least 1500 - 1600 to even apply for an apartment here...."


You don't owe me an explanation. I totally understand. I'm sorry about your situation. I was able to find a one bedroom apt for 350. I'm really good at find cheap apartments. Even if I have to lie, if its a big enough apartment they don't check. I'm just saying.

L.A.W.IsTheName 2 kids; Ohio 1749 posts
9th Jul '13
Quoting ♥Mrs.Garcia:" You don't owe me an explanation. I totally understand. I'm sorry about your situation. I was able to ... [snip!] ... really good at find cheap apartments. Even if I have to lie, if its a big enough apartment they don't check. I'm just saying."


i tried that even the one bedrooms are way to expensive

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
9th Jul '13
Quoting mommy2noah&crystel:" april...."


Maybe its just me, but even if there was an argument and hurtful words were said, I couldn't let someone sleep outside in a car for more than a day, if that. I'm sorry about your SOs and your situation and I hope that soon things get better for the both of you.

L.A.W.IsTheName 2 kids; Ohio 1749 posts
9th Jul '13
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" Maybe its just me, but even if there was an argument and hurtful words were said, I couldn't let someone ... [snip!] ... than a day, if that. I'm sorry about your SOs and your situation and I hope that soon things get better for the both of you."


im the same way i wouldnt be able to that.. ( a few ppl yea i could lol)



thanks though im hoping here soon we get in somewhere....

Simply, Mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Upland, 11738 posts
9th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mommy2noah&crystel:</b>" for the first 6 months you get i think 85% of your weekly wage, after the 6 months is up it goes off ... [snip!] ... we get 166 bi weekly... i get about 230 a week... you have to make at least 1500 - 1600 to even apply for an apartment here...."</blockquote>




where in ohio are u?



all my friends out there live for WAY cheaper than that.



like 5-800 a mnth.
and a lot of apartments they said were first mnth free 500 or less deposit.




also have u tried looking up income based?
alot of states have them.



hope u guys work it our and find something because that sounds so hard

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
10th Jul '13

Maybe he should try meeting with your father and apologizing and explain to him that he's like to provide more than just money to his family and ask to be let back on the house under a trial period.



At 20 and having so many issues going on, maybe marriage should be put off until life is more stable.

L.A.W.IsTheName 2 kids; Ohio 1749 posts
10th Jul '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" Maybe he should try meeting with your father and apologizing and explain to him that he's like to provide ... [snip!] ... under a trial period. At 20 and having so many issues going on, maybe marriage should be put off until life is more stable."


he has already tried, my parents dont want us to get married, thats what the problem is, as soon as we plan anything my dad does this, and if i were to postpone it he would be fine... im not going to not marry the love of my life and the father of my children because my dad doesnt like him..

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
10th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mommy2noah&crystel:</b>" he has already tried, my parents dont want us to get married, thats what the problem is, as soon as ... [snip!] ... would be fine... im not going to not marry the love of my life and the father of my children because my dad doesnt like him.. "</blockquote>




Yeah but maybe waiting until you're in a stable situation would be a good idea.