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....... *M3* 2 kids; Florida 11717 posts
10th Jul '13

Gone.......

ღSheila Lynnღ 3 kids; Weed, California 47383 posts
10th Jul '13

Totally get what you're saying. Maybe shr thinks he will cjange....I was dumb enough to be in a domestic violence relationship for a whole year because i was "so in love" with the a*****e and I really hoped he would change and stop all the bullshit he did do.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
11th Jul '13

Because they're being abused and have been taught that they don't deserve better.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
11th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" Because they're being abused and have been taught that they don't deserve better."</blockquote>




:!: Sadly this is true. :(



And also thinking "Oh, he will change! He'll do better this time." or something along those lines. Or even worse: "If I just quit making him mad..."



It's a vicious, heartbreaking, soul-shattering cycle.

*M3* 2 kids; Florida 11717 posts
11th Jul '13

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Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
11th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *M3*:</b>" I'm just like this guy is constantly swearing he will change and then after a week he's back to "who ... [snip!] ... going anywhere except to the store front of her job... Ugh I hate this ass hole and she doesn't get it it's like she's blind!!"</blockquote>




She needs to know she can come to you regardless of whether or not you like him, or she's going to stop confiding in you and that's taking her 5 steps back from leaving.

The Pretender 2 kids; Brazil 1215 posts
11th Jul '13

3 words: Shitty Self Esteem

*M3* 2 kids; Florida 11717 posts
11th Jul '13

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*M3* 2 kids; Florida 11717 posts
11th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *M3*:</b>" I'm just like this guy is constantly swearing he ... [snip!] ... of whether or not you like him, or she's going to stop confiding in you and that's taking her 5 steps back from leaving."</blockquote>




I know I am really trying to stay there for her but its just ugh!

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
11th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting *M3*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *M3*:</b>" ... [snip!] ... taking her 5 steps back from leaving."</blockquote> I know I am really trying to stay there for her but its just ugh!"</blockquote>




It's harder for her so suck it up for her sake.

*M3* 2 kids; Florida 11717 posts
11th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *M3*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... really trying to stay there for her but its just ugh!"</blockquote> It's harder for her so suck it up for her sake."</blockquote>




I know :( it's hard for me to keep my mouth shut but I am trying hard

zombie. 2 kids; Leadville, Colorado 23606 posts
11th Jul '13

I thought you were in a situation like this.

*M3* 2 kids; Florida 11717 posts
12th Jul '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting zombie.:</b>" I thought you were in a situation like this."</blockquote>



I was... Not so much any more